he sleeps all day... smokes bud all night....
2006-07-31 04:20:03 · 23 answers · asked by bashfulqti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are YOU paying for his habit? Next time he goes out for a sack, change the locks. When he can't get in, explain to him that the only people who live there all have jobs and he should call you if he ever gets one.
Dang...who is gmc19832001? Sounds too good to be true...
2006-07-31 04:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by TheGuru 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply follow these steps:
1. Decide for yourself what 'or else' means. Is it a hollow phrase because you can't be alone, or are you willing to take the consequences?
2. If you go for 'empty phrase', stop complaining. You are not willing to change the situation.
3. If you go for 'consequences', think about the consequences. Changing the lock, separating bank accounts, who owns the house, that sort of thing.
4. Tell him. Once. Then kick him out.
2006-07-31 11:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by mgerben 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes u just have to up front and honest with a person yes i understand that their are feeling involved but u can do bad by yourself u don't need help in that department so i would sit him down and let him know how i feel and let him know that he has xy and z time to get a job or he has to leave and yes it may hurt but its not fair to u to do all the work and he sits and enjoys the benefits good luck theres more men out there and good ones not that hes not one I'm sure he is but he needs to help u
2006-07-31 11:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by candy C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could say something like, "I really love you but if you want this relationship to go anywhere then you need to get a job or you need to move out. It is not fair for you to do all the work and him to do nothing." Good luck telling him!
2006-07-31 11:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ DancingQueen♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply put, get a job or get out. It's your house right? Judging by the question is appears to be. Stop allowing him to be the way he is. Don't give him any money or take him anywhere.
2006-07-31 11:24:31 · answer #5 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAD THAT PROBLEM. IT'S NOTHING THAT A METAL BAT CANT HANDLE. DONT GO TO HIM ALL SOFT EITHER.
TELL HIS A$$ HE NEEDS A J.O.B
AND HELP PAY THOSE B.I.L.L'S
OR HE CAN GET THE FU$CK O.U.T
IF THAT DONT WORK. YOU NEED TO PUT YOUR BAT TO WORK ON HIM.
BUT FOR REAL THOUGH DONT LET HIM TAKE YOU FOR A JOY RIDE. HE PROBABLY GETS MULA FROM YOU TOO AND BUYS HIS BUDS FROM YOU.
YO IF MONEY STARTS MISSING HURT HIM
2006-07-31 11:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by GrownNSexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Repeat after me.....
Listen, (insert name here), I love you and it is great having you here but it is not fair for me to have to work and you lay around here on your fat *** sleeping all the time and smoking your dope all night! Get your lazy *** up and get a ****ing job or your *** is on the street!
2006-07-31 11:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him, "Don't you feel guilty that you are under my roof, touching my belongings? Have you no shame? Are you a man or a little boy?" If that doesn't work, then I woudl say, "If you don't want to go home to your mommy, crying that I dumped you, then go get a job already."
2006-07-31 11:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pluck up the courage to do it. Be strong and calm and explain everything. If this guy is your boyfriend, then he likes you, and will listen, and he might feel honoured that you care so much.
Go for it!
xxjes
2006-07-31 11:23:25 · answer #9 · answered by JOANNABANANA ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get a job or get the F@#k out.
2006-07-31 11:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by instantgratification1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋