My boyfriend and I went to a bar last weekend, we got there pretty late and had already been drinking b/c we were at a wedding. We walk in and I go talk to my friend and he goes and talks to this woman in her 40s or 50s, I don't care but he comes over and tells me she is trying to take him home...he knows her b/c she used to be his sister's neighbor...he told her no and you might want to leave me alone cause my girlfriend is standing right over there....she was staring at me all night and she kept trying to stay next to him....he was talking to a friend facing away from her...so i go over and sit in his lap......i was drunk, pissed off cause she kept looking at me so i took my cup of ice and threw it at her...she didn't even do a thing! i wanted to beat her *** so bad, i mean i am sitting right there and she is like 15 years older than him...f*cking hoe!!!!!
2006-07-31 03:59:36 · 8 answers · asked by jada_24 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is just trying to feellike she's "still got it" (sex appeal) because she is racking up the miles and realizing it.
She is doing this to validate herself because she has self-doubts.
It probably makes her feel more powerful to distract your man's attention away from you.
Too bad for her. To get your man's attention back, stroke his ego better than her. Sure it's flattering for a guy to have female attention, but he would rather have it from you.
Don't worry about her. Don't lose your cool or she will know she is winning at her game. And I am sure your man enjoys feeling saught after and faught over.....
Really, feel sorry for her that she is a lonely, old and bitter woman. Don't be like her.
Tell her it's too bad she hasn't landed a fine guy like yours, but if she keeps looking, an available one might look her way.....
2006-07-31 04:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can't answer from the womens perspective...but the same thing happened to me where a older woman kept trying to get with me all evening and my date finally had to get us out of the club before she went off on her. I thought it was funny, but she was really pissed at the older woman and it made for some long lasting fun as she grilled me about the whole thing...
2006-07-31 11:11:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she's extremely insecure and has very low-self esteem, so deep-down she feels that she is not good enough to have a man of her own, so she has to act alike a cheap ho' to try and get another girls bloke to sleep with her. How sad, really these type of pathetic women are more to be pitied than anything else.
The throwing the ice thing...ok, you lost your cool, but in future, I wouldn't give women like this the satisfaction of letting them no you were rattled by this in any way.
Feel sorry for her....she's a loser!
2006-07-31 11:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At her age she does not get it as often as she would like. Plus older women are like young men ( my personal philosophy ) all they care about is sex and will do almost anything to get it.
2006-07-31 11:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by omenus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL you can't get mad at here because hse likes your man all that means is you have him on lock and yo got to do what you have to to keep him
2006-07-31 11:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she may know your ways and knew it would make you mad girls like to make others mad ya know dont let it get to you i mean your how he goes home with right
2006-07-31 11:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because shes an hoe
2006-07-31 11:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by millah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause she is not a real friend and shes jealous
2006-07-31 11:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋