my man and i just moved in together last week. we have been repairing our new home and both have been very busy.. he does everything for my kids and I. the problem i have is that he don't want to have sex... i don't understand why.. what can i do to make him want me.... i have used oral sex and longerie, and he let me do it but then goes to sleep on me...help.
2006-07-31 03:58:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe, he's just tried from all the repairing. He could just be stressing about everything right that he has so much on his mind .
2006-07-31 04:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just tired from fixing up the house. Give him some time.
Getting a new home and repairing it are some pretty big responsibilities and a huge commitment for a man. They might be weighing heavy on his mind.
2006-07-31 11:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by germaine_87313 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might feel uncomfortable in having sex with the children in the house, as from your question they arent his kids right, which can be a big deal for a man to look after another mans kids, hes probably worried the kids might walk in and catch you or something, hes probably extremely tired with looking after you your kids and fixing your new house up, wait till your completly settled im sure he'll be up for it then lol
2006-07-31 11:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has problems with impotense or premature ejaculation and is embarrased by this. Try talking with him about it without getting angry or upset so that he opens up to you. Also try couple counseling or sex therapy classes, these are available in almost every comunity collage. He has to understand that you have needs too...good luck.
2006-07-31 11:06:05 · answer #4 · answered by David E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, in my case, i am the one that doens't want sex and my partner wants it EVERDAY. Since i know is important in our lives and that most man just love it, we open up to each other and talked about our needs. he expressed how rejected he felt cause i never initiated anything. so that helped me out a lot, and now i am working on our intimate life a little more to keep him happy. so just talk to him!
2006-07-31 11:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it! the key to amazing sex is communication!
it could be that he's just tired from all the stresses of moving. that sort of thing can severely affect a man's sex drive.
communication communication communication!!!
2006-07-31 11:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you just moved in together so give it some time. He might not be ready to have sex with you yet.
2006-07-31 11:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by random queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just sit down and tell him how u feel about him not wanted to have sex with u and ask him why
2006-07-31 11:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to talk to him bout it.he must b having some problem discuss it with him. if it still don work then he need doctor
2006-07-31 11:13:13 · answer #9 · answered by pank_ti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about this and work it out.
2006-07-31 11:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by Pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋