Should you only date one person at a time or date many women at one time? I usualy only date one person at a time so no one gets jelous or have their feelings hurt, but im starting to get the impression that women are more comfortable if their not the only person im dating early in the relationship before any commitments have been made, I would also like to know why on that too.
2006-07-31 03:37:56 · 7 answers · asked by puzzle55usa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're in a serious relationship with someone, I'd stick to just her, but if you're having casual dates with random girls, the more the merrier.
As for the why, there are multiple reasons, but I'll stick to the major ones for now. Some women love a man who is desired by other women; it makes you a challenge. Also, it shows you're secure enough with yourself that you don't have a problem dating other women besides them. Women expect their man to be a man you know.
2006-07-31 03:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by Axel 4 · 13⤊ 7⤋
There's nothing wrong with dating several girls at once, if you're honest & upfront about the situation. Unfortunately, the term "dating" is often misused. There have been plenty of times I've had more than one date on a weekend. I might go to dinner & bowling with one girl on Friday night, & do dinner & a movie with another on Saturday night. Dating & sex are not synonymous. So, as long as you let a girl know you are playing the field beforehand, & weighing your options, she should have no reason to gripe. Also, if you do this, you have to allow her to do the same. What's fair for the goose is fair for the gander, so to speak. I date a girl from time to time who has other guys she dates, & I have other girls I date, & we've never had a problem with this arrangement. If one of us gets exclusive with someone, we let the other know. So, if you're going to date multiple people, keep it honest & you should do fine.
2006-07-31 10:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u make it sound like ur taking 2 women on the same date! i think men and women should date as many different people as possible, they shouldnt get jealous!! would u?
2006-07-31 10:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating more than 1 person is cheating on them and playing around with them and that person deserves better. Stick with 1 person. Would u like it if u had to share ur special person with 20 more ppl? i don't think so..........
2006-07-31 10:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At a time it should be one so that you can judge his suitability properly.
2006-07-31 10:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by suchsi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jedi Knight has it right.
2006-07-31 10:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure one
2006-07-31 10:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋