How do you get over a broken heart? How can you move on to another relationship when the hurt is still there? I want to date again, but....
2006-07-31 03:31:59 · 5 answers · asked by shynomore 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl, I struggle with this every day. those stages of grief you have to go through? well, I'm in anger.
Try to keep busy. Avoid places you went together, avoid shows you watched, movies you saw, restaurants where you ate. Listen to another type of music (big memory maker) so you don't hear "your song". I'm not kidding - you need to get rid of photos with him in them - & if you can't bring yourself to get rid of them, box them up & put them where you won't be tempted to stroll down memory lane. My ex made me a charm bracelet that is just so special & exquisite. I will never wear it again. Just find new activities for YOU. Join a health club, get massages, go for pedicures, take a class - anything different & anything to put your mind on something else. Make this be time for YOU. Learn what you like, what you want. Indulge yourself. Go to the beach for a weekend, or take a quick trip - spread your wings & find something about yourself to admire. Write it all in a journal & make yourself goals to keep. As you accomplish a goal, cross it out. Good luck hun - I feel your pain better than you know.
2006-07-31 04:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best way to move to another relationship is to date..the more u date the more you forget those "deviations" from your happy life. So, date!
2006-07-31 04:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by Cyberpunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of life and try to see the shining side not the dark side.
Think of the benefits from the x- relation and how it will give you more experience for finding the right and real one.
i think life is full of fun and we don't have to look behind we must keep looking forward and forget every thing bad in the past.
Best wishes
2006-07-31 03:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to be honest you can't have another successful relationship if you are hung up on the old one. Take time for yourself and heal. Then you can give your attention to another relationship.
2006-07-31 03:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by living this life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give time to the time. like it came, it will go. JUST TIME
2006-07-31 03:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋