i get alot of guys approach me cos im very appealing. however i dont know whether they just want sex because i know i will not do anything till after marriage. is there any point in exchanging numbers to get to know each other or am i wasting their time?
2006-07-31 03:23:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys just want sex. You're kidding yourself and being naieve if you believe otherwise. Some want relationships, so they can have sex on tap. But hey, what's wrong with that?
2006-07-31 03:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe some people on here, and the fact that some of the women are so cheap they actually see nothing wrong with being wanted for just sex. I know lots of guys and though I'm not religious I am virtuous and a lot of my male friend hot as they might be are Christians and a no go area for sex and even those that aren't Christians are not sexually desperate sados. NOT ALL GUYS ONLY WANT SEX.
I must admit most people are so desensitised they see nothing wrong with giving sex on tap, but you and lots of other women like you have a higher degree of self worth and may I say sense. And if many disagree with that argument at least when they get STDs you would be in the clinic with them.
Don't give up on the male sex, but rather stand your ground and when you do meet a guy who isn't lead by is trouser or one who respects you for who you are rather than sees you as eye candy or walking sex toy, you will realise it is so worth it.
2006-07-31 10:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I gotta say Im into more than just sex. I like to drink alot of booze and if I could find a chick that would never say anything to me about drinking all the time, I might just keep her around. We wouldnt even need to have sex. Just lots of booze. I need a chick that has a job and can pay for all the booze. I hate it when I have to go pawn something just so I can get a bottle of hooch. Dont get me wrong, the sex would be a bonus, but I might get too drunk and accidentally put it in her pooper.
2006-07-31 10:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by !@#$ (formerly Ralph M) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is part of a relationship if it is serious, you have issues if you are thinking of marriage to a guy on the first date!
How do you know if you are compatible if you don't make love?
I am not saying have sex straight away, you will know when the person is right and the time is right.
2006-07-31 10:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give them a chance..know them first before making judgement..not all guys want sex..some are sincere but because of one rotten guy who wants sex,does not mean all the men are the same!be open and know who u are making friends with..that way,people will appreciate u more for being fair and not judgemental..cheers!!!if u think that the guy is not the one that u want,can just remain as friends..in love,it is u who decides who shall be in ur heart forever!!
2006-07-31 10:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by zafara2203 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't only want sex. However, yes, many guys do only want sex. Casually bring up the no sex 'till marriage thing, watch them vanish.
2006-07-31 10:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys just want sex. some actually want a conversation with a person and get to know them. Cant have a relationship thats based souly on sex, you have to know and understand your partner and have something in common, its doomed if you base it purely on lust or physical attraction
2006-08-04 07:14:04 · answer #7 · answered by mr_scotsguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to want a meaningful relationship , but after 3 divorces i no longer have any respect for women, so now i just want sex and nothing more.
2006-07-31 10:29:55 · answer #8 · answered by peziord 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exchange numbers , get to know the people you like and if its right it will happen
2006-07-31 10:31:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooh get you ;P
ha ha - I'm sure you ARE though.
Why not just tell them in the first place - then it's up to them :P
2006-07-31 10:27:16 · answer #10 · answered by DaN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋