My husband has been feeling a little down.I think he is tired of working.I wanna do something nice for him just to let him know i appreciate him so much. I dont wanna spend alot of money and i dont wanna do anything sexual.I just wanna be sweet to give him a nice little feeling inside any ideas? he works at a construction site
2006-07-31 03:20:34 · 11 answers · asked by daisygurl326 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, it makes me wonder why you don't want to do anything sexual.
Do you mean you want to avoid any such thing for the entire night/day/week, OR that you wanted to concentrate more on doing something sweet rather than on doing something sexual, BUT that, nevertheless, you would be just as happy for the session to finish up with sexual activity as well, if the mood worked that way??
I mean, if you really love him, and want to please him, surely, like most men, he would love something sexual somewhere. As a loving wife, wishing to do something particularly nice for him, you would hope to include sexual activity on the agenda somewhere for him - even if you don't see it as your particular specialty!
I'm speaking as a man/husband now.
But these ideas from these women, I couldn't top them; there are some very good and lovely settings here.
I am just surprised, the way it comes across, that you might want to avoid something that a genuine, warm affection between the two of you might likely lead to - from a man's viewpoint.
2006-07-31 03:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by dr c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man works construction too. It really depends on your guy. A week ago when I knew my baby was having a bad day I made him a four course meal with wine (of course) and bought a bouquet for the table and had the food ready and set for when he walked in the door. He was so happy to have me cater to him after his exhausting day.
Good luck!
2006-07-31 10:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by Claudia B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a new hard hat, especially designed for him decorated with things he likes. If he's a patriotic American, have the flag and maybe a bald eagle painted on it for example. If he has a favorite sports team, get it painted in their colors and with their logo. Buy him a new tool set or maybe bring lunch and desserts to the worksite for him and his coworkers one day.
2006-07-31 10:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by duvaldiva.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him his favorite dinner and ask him what he would like to do for the evening. If you have children, try getting a sitter and having a parent's night out.
2006-07-31 10:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by Erin S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put on something cute, fix your hair and make-up, and take him his favorite home-cooked lunch to his construction site. Hand it to him, give him a big smooch, tell him you love him, and leave.
2006-07-31 10:24:58 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsay M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make his favorite food for him. if he likes dancing, after eating put on some music and dance with him. then tell him how much you appreciate and love him. share a milkshake or ice cream with him. eat out of the same bowl or drink milkshake using 2 straws.....
2006-07-31 10:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by lidipiwi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tell u what makes my man happy, cook him his favourite meal, over candelight, one night. adn after that give him a sensual massage using faint lavander oil adn oil of primrose. adn he will apreciate it. adn u never kno u say nothing sexual but the right mood and more could happen, that will relieve his stress of work
2006-07-31 10:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by English gothic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him a nice lunch and go to where he works.and tell him that you thought that.you and he would have lunch togeher today. and after lunch give him a big hug and kiss.and tell him that you will see him at home later on.
2006-07-31 10:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out what radio station they listen to on the site and have a song dedicated to him!!.......... or make him something symbolic of your love for him (if you are the arty type) a sculpture??? maby reenact your first date, in detail??
2006-07-31 10:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by Jamni@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breakfast in bed massage pedicure, manicure and you can do all.
2006-07-31 10:24:16 · answer #10 · answered by keke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋