As a father seeking joint Custody, what are my rights as the other parent?

Question

my ex-wife is tryin to get me out of my children's life.

Answer 1

Well first of all, stop thinking of yourself as the "other parent". Fathers are mostly recognized by the courts as an integral part of children's lives. If you have been involved with your children, and have been obeying your custody and support agreements, then your ex-wife shouldn't be able to gain full custody. They are your children just as much as they are hers.

Answer 2

speaking from experience( my husband and his ex)- joint custody is difficult for people who do not get along because there is constant conflict.courts usually give that to people who agree that they are both good parents and get along with each other. if you can get any positive drug tests on her, or neglect of some sort, that is your best bet. if the mom wants full custody and is a good mom, your gonna have some problems. you may end up with weekend visits every other holiday and half the summer.
next time be very careful who decide to have kids with.

Answer 3

it's very tough. because joint custody only works well if the parents are getting along. judge probably won't give joint custody if the parents are in big conflict. just keep being persistent about seeing the kids and talk to them a lot.

Answer 4

I really dont know how a mother could do that kind of ****.My brother is going thou the same thing right now.He hasnt seen his son in almost 2 years.The mother doesnt want him to be in his life and has him call other guys daddy.By the way,this chick family has money.So he didnt even try to fight her in court because of that reason.

I wish you the best of luck.Now adays father's dont have much rights as a parent.Seems the court system is so mess up.I dont see why would the judge do that.Doesnt a kid,have a right to know both parents,not just one.Good Luck andGod Bless

Answer 5

Unless you've done something to warrant this, it wouldn't be allowed by the judge. Joint custody is just that, and lots of shared time and responsibilities. Consult with lawyer and stand up for yourself and your relationship with your children.

Answer 6

Hoping that you have a good track record when it comes to paying child support and visiting your kids regularly. If not you might have an uphill battle. You need to see a good family lawyer. Ask around friends, family and work and see if someone is recommended. Try and keep everything civil for your children. Don't sling dirt even if your ex resorts to it.