2006-07-31 03:13:10 · 10 answers · asked by tithee03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No your not wrong. You have to think of your own future. You know what they say?
Threes a crowd.....I don't know what five is but I wouldn't allow it.
2006-07-31 03:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by jewel_o_th_night 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you aren't wrong at all. They probably want to live with you because someone else is sick of them. Everyone needs a place of their own and nobody really wants a paraside in their household. I have allowed people to stay with me for a while so that they can get themselves established but eventually I had to put them out because they considered the living arrangement to be permanent.
It didn't matter to me whether or not they paid their half of the bills. The house was getting too crowded and uncomfortable for me. I enjoy coming home and finding everything the way that I left it. I enjoy the peace and quiet, and I enjoy not being inconvenienced by other people in the bathroom or the kitchen.
If they have an established plan for moving out and getting their own place within a 6 month time frame and they have realistic goals, it would be ok to let them move in as long as they understand that in 6 months they gotta go. You will not tolerate any excuses about the apartment not being ready or not having enough money for the deposit. They have to know that if they do not have a place to live in 6 months, they will be sleeping on the street 6 months and 1 day later.
If you do not establish this rule or enforce this rule you will find yourself in an very unpleasant situation.
2006-07-31 03:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of you're interior the main remarkable in this, and that i additionally think of you need to enable your fiance manage his aunt. He ought to easily tell her, "Aunt Carol, i be responsive to countless the cousins decide for to deliver dates, yet regrettably we've already had to cut back our visitor checklist and go away off a good style of people who we would have enjoyed to ask, with the aid of fact we don't have an endless funds. We basically can no longer accommodate a good style of extra human beings. we are hoping which you and your loved ones could make it, yet regrettably, we basically don't have the gap for the cousins to deliver visitors." and that's what he needs to assert back and back back until it gets via her obdurate head, and he needs to tell his mom the comparable situation.
2016-11-03 09:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, ur not wrong at all. U just want ur privacy and that should be respected by ur bf's cousin.
2006-07-31 03:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, its natural to feel like their introding. But just suck it up for a while and play nice host. For now anyway, be sweet but dont let them warm out there welcome
2006-07-31 03:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur nt coz ull then have 2 b carefull and stuff ino wat u meen bt u have 2 show ur b.f
tht u like his fam.
only if there was a past relation ship wth hs cousin.....
then u shod nt alow her.....
2006-07-31 03:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. It's your home. If you give in.. make sure that she pays rent.
2006-07-31 03:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by laughinggirlfullofjoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with that, it's totally normal!
2006-07-31 03:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it'll make life more stressful in your home
2006-07-31 03:17:06 · answer #9 · answered by ** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-07-31 03:16:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋