she shows interest in a threesome but says that it has to be with someone that is "clean", and that we will never see again. how am i supposed to find someone like that?
2006-07-31 03:08:15 · 18 answers · asked by fastfurious_49er 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are DEFINITELY talking extra woman
2006-07-31 03:23:23 · update #1
liquor lots of liquor and then the standards would drop
2006-07-31 03:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by gotearz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only way to know if someone is "clean" is to all go down and get tested for STDs which can take days or more to find out results. Of course, this will kill any hotness to the threesome but it is worth it. A LOT people have some variation of HPV and HSV so I'd be more concerned with those two than HIV or others. Anyone who has had a cold sore has a variant of Herpes FYI.
My advice to you is to go to a swingers website. There's single girls and girls in relationships that are looking for a threesome.
OTher than STDs, make sure you have a strong relationship void of any form of jealosy or envy because your relationship is sure to deteriorate after a threesome if these are present.
Think long and hard before you engage in this because it's no turning back.
2006-07-31 10:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't !...........For one you can never know if someone is clean unless your willing to go to the clinic with them and wait and read the test results your self...and two she sound like she would have issues after the fact...your girl saying that she doesn't want to see the person again does not sound like a person who is ready to have a threesome it sounds more like she is curious about it...people are curios about allot of things it doesn't mean they act them out....
2006-07-31 10:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always tell my boyfriend that too. But he knows its never going to happen, lol.
The only it would happen it seems like, is if you guys went out of town, or maybe another city, and went to a bar and met some girls. And picked the best of the bunch.
However nowadays, you cant trust anyone, and especailly with all the stds, and diseases going around, it really isnt safe to do it with someone you really didnt know or trust. Good Luck :o)
2006-07-31 10:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Craigslist
2006-07-31 10:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by frigginhatch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are we talking an extra man or woman?
2006-07-31 10:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
our local adult book store has a weekly book that has addresses of peolpe that want to meet for this. It is a good way to meet people for a weekend and a fling.
ask the sales rep about them( the listings)
2006-07-31 10:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is that fussed get her to find somebody coz thn she cnt blame u if she isnt "Clean"
Some grls expect the boy to do everything. Tell her to sort it out.
2006-07-31 10:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you? Why in the world would you insist on this unhealthy act? Grow up and respect your woman.
I am glad she has the brains to be careful of disease, but if she had real brains she would dump you for someone who would treat her with respect!
2006-07-31 10:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by mar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is the 3rd person a man or a woman. And are you allowed to participate with the other person? or is she only allowed?
2006-07-31 10:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck brother! Try www.adultfreindfinder.com or www.alt.com but she wont like any girl that SHE didnt find!
2006-07-31 10:10:58 · answer #11 · answered by Gregg H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋