My girlfriend and I have been together for 14 months and I love her with all my heart and do not care to be with any other girl. However we are completly opposite and we fight every day almost because of our diferent opinions. It makes both of us feel horrible to fight yet still we do, and even though we fight we still love each other with all our hearts and keep trying to work things out, Is there anyway that we can overcome this or will we always be fighting? I am worried that some day our fights will split us up? I need help
2006-07-31 02:46:37 · 7 answers · asked by shycountryboy85 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fights are part of life. Its really normal for a couple to fight for one thing or the other. Remember if a couple doesn't have a problem, then, they definately have a problem. Just flow with it. And don't take any fight seriously. While fighting don't say words that might hurt her. And ask for the same from her. All the best.
2006-07-31 02:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by vickybablani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you have a brother/sister type of love...you argue about things yet when the going gets tough you probably unite and stand your ground...there is a certain maturity level that this relationship hasn't reached and your comfortable about arguing about the small stuff and not focused on whats really important...and that would be each other...don't let your love be overshadowed by the small stuff...because one of you might do something they regret and then realize how much they really love the other and it will be to late by then...don't waste your precious time arguing ... express your love for one another more.
2006-07-31 10:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the relationship room to breath. Ten times out of ten, the reason why couples fight is because they are with each other TOO much. If you don't give her some room, you'll choke the relationship to death.
2006-07-31 09:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends...
Do you fight about money or sex? If not, then don't worry. It's probably just that you are both strong and opinionated. That's why opposites attract and sparks fly.
2006-07-31 09:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you guys sure you're compatible? There's more than loving each other to make a relationship work.
2006-07-31 09:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by BigPappa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what Dr. phil says wake up each morning thinking of a way to make your partners day better. and what would they really enjoy.
2006-07-31 09:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by bobsdidi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just u both try to shift ur paradigm
u think in her view and tell her to think in ur view
if u practice it u r problem will be settled with in 1r 2 months
all the best
2006-07-31 10:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by surya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋