Theres this guy that i have been talking to. we have only been talking for a few days. i want to know, but i dont want him to know that i kinda like him already. I know that guys get freaked out when a girl tells them that she likes them to soon. So would be ok to ask him???
2006-07-31 02:23:33 · 17 answers · asked by NyNy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course. He may be too shy to ask you. Don't be a wet noodle. Ask!
2006-07-31 02:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless you like to live in a vacuum, always ask about anything that you are concerned about. Yes, you should definitely find out if a guy has a girl already. Who wants to be a third wheel? Read Psalm 35 to (Plead My Cause) which is a long-winded, but worthwhile prescription from God. You certainly want the Lord's blessings on whatever you seek in this world. Remember this, "If God be for us, who can be against us?" - Romans 8:31. Peace and God Bless.
2006-07-31 09:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by In God We Trust 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope ... i know from expirience ... it will scare them... what you do is get into a casual conversation and then say something along the lines as " i bet you do that with your girl friend all the time." or if hes funny "Your a trip your girlfirend probebly dies of laughter everytime your around." or if he plays sports "Dose your girlfriend go to your games?" or "who goes to your games" well you get the point always ASSUME they have a girlfriend because you do two things at once 1feed the male ego as to saying your so great you must have a girlfriend and 2 you dont come across as im desperate i WANT no no noNEED to be your girlfriend
2006-07-31 09:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it!
I just read some of the other answers on here... All of the girls must be under 20...
I guess if the guy is 20+ yrs old then go ahead and ask him but if he is a teenager you might take it a little slower.
2006-07-31 09:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, if you two have just been talking , and getting to know each other, there is nothing wrong with asking him if he has a girlfriend. It doesnt necessarily mean you like him, you are just trying to find out about him. I say go for it !
2006-07-31 09:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by Scooby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooo, that is so staright to the point, beat around the bush for an answer. Besides, it will sound like you're hitting on him. You gotta be smarter than that.
2006-07-31 09:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by gameplan_xtreme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i met my current boyfriend after about two days i asked: "So do u have a gf? coz i need to know if i'll get in trouble or can i go on flirting"
he said thats what got him hooked...
2006-07-31 09:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i thing it would be okay to ask him, but don't just come out and ask try to bet around the bush with so he wont get freaked out
2006-07-31 09:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It absolutely would be ok to ask him,there is no other way to find out.
Just keep it light and casual and I am sure you will do fine with the question. :)
2006-07-31 09:25:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
donot ask him directly.
just try to know from other ways while talking indirectly
2006-07-31 09:32:41 · answer #10 · answered by surya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋