when I get mad at her she says "I can't believe Mario is still with you as for how mean you act with him." I promised him I would change and I HAVE! Well he is not here right now but he comes back in like 9 days. The point is that that isn't my sister's problem....why would she have t say that? Am I right that it's none of her businesss? What would you guys think? Plus she is 18....I am 16 and my bf is 15.
2006-07-31 02:15:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S: She has never had a bf so no experience to tell me that.
2006-07-31 02:19:53 · update #1
ALSO SHOULD I TELL MY BF NOT TO EVER SAY HIO TO HER AND BE RUDE TO MY SISTER? He wouls sometimes even text her and ofcourse he doesn't mean it like that but it BUGGED me , I had to stop him.
2006-07-31 02:21:22 · update #2
She's hitting you where it hurts, smack dab on a pressure point. It's a cheap shot. If you were a harelip, you'd hear comments about that. Don't be wounded, be angry. Good luck in love.
2006-07-31 02:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by Happy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She has no right to say that to you, because your bf stayed with you for a reason and that should be enough to prove to yourself and to your sis, that you are worthy of staying with him. It doesn't matter when she says those things because how would she know? She isn't the one having the relationship. Those are just probably words out of anger, caused by the spur of the moment, and you shouldn't look into it too much, or be affected by it too much.
Its a good thing you've changed for the better, but don't let her insults corrupt your self-esteem. Since your boyfriend is not breaking off the relationship, despite what your sister says, then he must have accepted your imperfections and that is what any good boyfriend should do. Tell your sister that your bf loves you no matter what she says and that that should be enough proof for the both of you that you are worthy of him.
2006-07-31 09:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mujareh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As awful as it may sound your sister may just be trying to help you. She's just going about it the wrong way. Look into yourself and what do you see. Sit down with your sister and ask to have a real conversation. Ask her what she see's because you want to be a better person and you trust her. She'll balk if she's just being nasty. If she's being honest she will be open to talking to you. When your done give her a hug and say thanks.
2006-07-31 09:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is none of her business, but maybe you don't realize how you act with him. Maybe you are mean and she can see it but you don't. If I was you I would take in consideration what she said and try to change the way you act around him. You don't have to admit to her, that she might be right, but think about it.
2006-07-31 09:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking your bf what he thinks bout u.Your sister may think u r mean but it doesn't mean that ur bf does too.Maybe your sister just care bout you so much and she don't wan u to lose ur bf.or maybe she just use that to make you feel bad.
2006-07-31 09:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a way she probably is just trying to help out because people can see things in us that it take a while for us to see in ourselves and if she sees is i can bet you that your boyfriend also can see it
2006-07-31 09:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to bug off. But if he leaves you she could be right.
2006-07-31 09:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's none of her business, but it's just her opinion. You're not dating her, so I wouldn't be so offended by it.
2006-07-31 09:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is a little to close to your b/f.
2006-07-31 09:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~Jeni~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has the experience! and tell her to but off!
2006-07-31 09:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by hunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋