Does anyone else hate their life so much that they want to die every day?

Answer 1

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Hello Sam,
As you can see from all these answers that there are lots and lots of people who care and want to help :o) (Ignore the silly brainless twits who write horrible things just for the sake of it.) It does sound like you are suffering from severe depression... and I understand this... I have suffered from it myself. I have felt this feeling more than I can explain.

I don't want to repeat lots of things other kind people have written... and when we are feeling very bad it's hard to try to be positive and think of *good* things in life, or things you want to achieve... as it all looks bleak at these times doesn't it. But, things *do* change...I believe they WILL change... and as long as you have some support and kind souls who care around you or in contact with you, you CAN make it through and hang in there until your life gets better. Sometimes, just a few small loving things in life keep us going... and we move on slowly from there. You could go down the medical route too, if you feel alright about it... some antidepressants can be a support and help to get you through this period... and asking your doctor if you could see a counsellour or psychological therapist about your depression, can really give some extra support. It might be a little nerve wracking but it is worth it. Be brave. x

Life is a real struggle to say the least sometimes, but it will change, and your feelings will change too. Try to hold on to this knowledge in your heart.It is hard to imagine when things have probably been like this for you for some time.

I understand that it can feel hopeless, but there *is* a way through. Lots of genuine people are reaching out to you too. If you feel terrible and want a kind friend who will listen, or just give a bit of support and encouragement and strength, should you want to you can contact me by sending me a message.. I promise I'll respond. You can speak in confidence about why you feel so bad, why you hate your life... and what you could do to begin to feel differently. x x


Whatever you do, ( it's fine if you don't feel like making contact, we're thinking of you anyway!)please take care of your precious life. Be gentle with yourself.

I really do understand more than I can say on here.

Sending strength, and courage.
with lots of love. x x x

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Answer 2

Yes, I and many other people have felt that way. If this feeling lasts every day for more than 2 weeks - you may be clinicially depressed. You need to tell someone so that you can get help. It's hard to imagine that you can ever feel differently than you do now - because you are caught up in the negative emotions. This feeling is usually a temporary thing. There are many medications that can help give you enough energy and motivation to change what is needed to be changed. A lot of times, depression signals a need for change. If you feel so low that you feel like ending your life, than call a suicide hotline and get immediate help that way. Believe it or not, you will not always feel this way and there will be opportunities for happiness in your future!
Sincerely, A licensed mental health therapist in VA.

P.S. Don't be discouraged by the replies that tell you to "just get over it," They too will understand the misery of feeling this way - they just are ignorant to the experience...

Answer 3

Regardless of other peoples opinions on here, do not do anything foolish!
Life has so much to offer, I beg you to talk to someone you can trust, a member of your family or even The Samaritans. Whatever maybe troubling you now will eventually seem less of a problem if you talk it out!
Remember the good memories and the people that made you a good person, that shaped you as a human being and the influences in your life that made you feel whole!
Suicide is not the answer, we all have hurdles in life that are hard to cross and sometimes they feel like mountains but remember you are a person, special and individual and unique as we all are even though most people don't realise it!
But you know in your heart of hearts that with a little help from those who love you, you can conquer anything...
Be strong, for life is wonderful thing regardless of the roller coaster we are all on...you just have to ride it out....

Answer 4

Why don't you look at what you hate about your life, and then sit down and figure out what goals you need to achieve to turn things around.

Then sit back and concentrate hard about how you can make this happen. It may sound like hard work, but you know whats a lot harder than striving to accomplish those goals? Hating your life everyday so much that you want to end it- so everything else should seem pretty easy, what have you got to lose things obviously couldn't get any worse!

Answer 5

I did, and I had really bad depression, and now my partner has it- I don't have it any more but i think when you're in the thick of it its hard to see beyond how you feel.
I know this is easy to say- but believe me because I have been there and many a time sat in my car wanting to crash it into a wall.
You have many people around you that car for you, you have support if you need it, but it comes doewn to you.
I was so low and thought that I would never be the same but I found if you focus of what you really want in life and make an effort to get it it relaly helps you. I didnt want to temp for the rest of my life and wanted to get into the radio industry- and thats where I am now!
I did something every day to keep my mind active, built up my CV , sent it to loads of companys and started to get really positive replies- sO i knew that i wasn't worthless and the thought of doing my dream job really helped me.
be positive, think about what you want. Talk to people- but realise you are not worthless- and someone really loves you.
Good Luck

Answer 6

No. Not too many folks hate their life so much that they want to die every day.

Your feelings aren't in the normal range. Have you considered seeking counseling or group therapy or just talking over your thoughts with someone that you trust? Try it.

When you can voice your thoughts it helps to be able to bounce them off another person & get a different perspective on the problems in your life.

Answer 7

If you are serious about this question, you are depressed. Yes, depressed people have these thoughts each and every day and they need help. Suicide is a "forever" solution for a temporary problem. Even if you believe you won´t make it I can assure you that you will. We´ll all die someday so live while you can. Please get some help and remember: You are not the only one and you are not alone.
Please go and see a therapist and tell us how you´re doing. You´ll overcome all the pain, you´ll see.

Answer 8

If you have felt this way for a long time and you cannot point to a single
issue that makes you feel this way (in other words, if this issue weren't
true, you would be happy), then you have chronic depression.

In any case, you should tell your parents and/or see a doctor.

People with clinical depression have been known to kill themselves and
teens have a notoriously high rate of suicides.

There is relatively straightforward help (therapy, drugs).

If you DO have specific issues that make you unhappy, you should
try to resolve them and you should certainly make your parents, etc
aware that they are going on.

There isn't a teen out there that wants to tell his parent that he is being
bullied - but it can cause him to suffer in all kinds of ways being
bruises and losing his lunch money.

There isn't a teen out there that wants to complain about her love life
to parents - but generally adults get to be adults by having gone through it.

None of these issues are worth staying depressed over for a long time.
Bight the bullet - talk to someone.

Answer 9

hiya sam b i did feel like this but then i went to the doctor's thinking i am lazy and angry. But in fact i was depressed yeah i don't mean crying feeling useless i mean angry very angry frustrated then i felt guilty. Anyway doctor prescribed me some anti-depressents it does take a few weeks for you notice any difference. You need to go and speak to your doctor and you also need to find somebody that you can talk to when you are feeling really low if this is not possible write all your feelings down. If you get the medical attention you need. I know you will feel better in time. GOOD LUCK

Answer 10

Why do you hate your life so much? Life is hard and sometimes very tough, but you will get through it. Everybody has troubles from time to time, we all do. Go see your GP, have a chat, get help, and you will be bouncing back, remember your not on your own. Live life to the full and enjoy yourself. Good luck.