I am not talking about a brother who is church hoping and still doing his thing. I mean a Man that know's how to worship, pray, attend bible study, be in Sunday School early and attend church regular. A brother who put God as his first priorty and pay his tithes faithfuly.
2006-07-31 02:09:15 · 5 answers · asked by Sweets 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First you need to pray and ask god to lead you but if there is a woman that is like yourself just go up to her and talk to her (being a preachers daughter that is not easy) but just be very prayerful.
2006-07-31 02:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by lasondraperry-graham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a.) They're scouting you out to see whether you're stable, interesting, fun, intelligent, in control of societal resources (money, influence), and possess other attributes they want. b.) They lose interest in you and begin to see your faults; or they come across another man they like (one you don't know about). Women will lightly date several men at a time, not taking any one budding friendship beyond a week or two if they aren't sure of it. Why do they do this? Because they're intelligent. You should do the same, and lightly date a few chicks at any one time; not getting too serious with any of them (no sex, etc.), nor dating any of them for more than a few weeks; unless, of course, you want to commit to one in particular, in which case you drop the rest and become exclusive to her. Even the stiff Victorians advised such a strategy. It's smart. Just "play it light" and keep things moral/ethical. Be a gentleman. Keep your dignity and some reserve. Respect people and build solid foundations of platonic friendship first -- that's when interested women will start to chase you and crave more; if nothing comes of it, however, it's just a platonic friendship, and no dignity lost. Your reputation is the most important thing. /Not/ whether you're head over heels in love. You've got to get that drilled into your head. That knowledge is a large part of what it means to be an adult, mature gentleman. Wild swings of emotion are not good. During times when everything else is going to hell, you have to be the stable gyroscope among the chaos. (That source of stability, as it turns out [bringing, by serendipity, our formula full-circle], is precisely what women "want.")
2016-03-16 09:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you wouldn't have the time for a woman anyways. Yes God is supposed to be first and formost but not on a material plane. Spending physical time worshiping Him is a material thing. Not a spiritual thing. A man should be doing everything in his daily life for God. Not in church or bible study. But in work and play.
2006-07-31 02:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by TMAC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think it would depend on what religion you are. If dating is acceptable then why wouldn't you approach someone who is like minded? Who better to understand your lifestyle than a woman of God? If you want to spend time with her, just ask her out for coffee after church and start there.
2006-07-31 02:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way as anyone else should. POlitely, respectfully. You have an advantage as you already know you have something in common. Ask her to go with you to a Church function that she would normally attend. The difference is of course she's not just going this time, she's going with YOU, and you focus your attention and time on her. If you really are a man of God, I dont have to worry about you being a jerk, so go strong!
2006-07-31 02:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by aoshi_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about a mystery you approached when reading the bible. She might be able to solve it and that way, you get to really know if she's a Woman of God. Take it from there.
2006-07-31 02:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by AN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋