i have been in 7 different relationships, and i use to hear that it takes two to tangle and that relationship is all about giving and taking, so i get confused each time i am the only person sacrificing in relationship and at the end of the day i still get heart break. do you think i am giving in too much.
2006-07-31 01:50:01 · 12 answers · asked by oasis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes but it sounds like you are a very caring and compassionate person!! You just need to find someone on the same level as you. It will take time but be paitent and don't give up. It will happen when the time is right. Until then go out and explore the world and try new things meet new people. The right one comes along when we least expect it!! Good Luck :-)
2006-07-31 01:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course you are !! what you heard is so true .. if you are always giving and not taking anything in return but the heart break then obviously their is something wrong .. you gotta have more self confidence and pride .. you deserve to take .. you are a good person and if this relationship aren't satisfying then all you have to do is move on to another one .. that's what you should say to yourself each time you find yourself in such a situation .. wish you luck
2006-07-31 02:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by need to know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that both of you have had a heart to heart talk about this whole situation because it makes no sense he doesn't know your expectations. Both of you should know what each other wants and try to give it as much as possible. If he is aware of what you are doing and what you want in return and is not giving it then it makes absolutely no sense because all he's doing is using you.
2006-07-31 01:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by Hot all over :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to tango (not tangle). I guess that you are the submissive type. Try some domination over your next bf and do not obey everything he asks you to do; only the things that you are convinced of. Also ask and demand of him anything that would make him think that you have a balanced relation.
2006-07-31 01:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the problem lies within yourself. Seven relationships is a lot considering the fact that in all of them you're the one who's always sacrificing
2006-07-31 01:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by j9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I believe you are giving too much, if you are giving 100% and you are still ending up with heartbreaks then that is not the person for you.
2006-07-31 01:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by busthead213 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you are the only one taking. It might not seem like that to you but why don't you just take your "needinesss" out of the picture. Focus on the other one for a while. Your needs will be met eventually. Without you begging for it. Whiner.............s.
2006-07-31 01:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by TMAC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"to much is not good" im not saying that you have to wait for some reward of wat your doing in your relation but im pointing out that just take a little bit for your self just think of it!! it happens not only twice to you...i think you need to change a little don't give to much...for a relation so if you enter again in relationship u will find that in relationship it is equal not only one have to give but both not only one have to tke but both of u...
2006-07-31 02:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by KELEEN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are more into the relationship then the other person is.
2006-07-31 01:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to demand more to get more. If you settle for less, you will get less. In other words, people treat you the way you allow yourself to be treated.
2006-07-31 04:38:51 · answer #10 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋