I was wondering if it truely is possible to love to women the same, b/c i have a gf but i find my self enjoying her friends company just as much as having her around. please help.
2006-07-31 01:41:21 · 7 answers · asked by Jack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, since they are friends they probably have a lot in common
If I were you I'd stay away fr. the friend, unless others
are w/ you this way you don't ruin the relationship that
you & your g-friend have
2006-07-31 01:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I believe so. You can find each fulfills certain needs you have more than the other. What you have is a deep love for both, but that is not the same as being totally and wholely in love with one woman who is also your soul mate. If you met 'THE ONE' then no other woman would even exist for you in an in love kind of way.
2006-07-31 08:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by kenhallonthenet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a guy, it is possible to "love" multiple hot women at the same time. Because that "love" you are feeling is more closely related to testosterone and pheremones.
Unfortunately, men's and women's idea of love are different. Women base their "love" on emotional nurturing. If you have the enregy and attention to be emotionally nurturing to multiple women...then you a re a better man than any I have met.
Women use hormones as a sailboat does a rudder...to keep them on an even keel. Men use them hormones like an sail...to help get them to where they are going.
If you want to see a woman off her keel, try to explain the concept of loving more than one woman.
2006-07-31 08:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by IknowNothing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there my friend. In the end, I was too confused and lost both. Make a decision and please do not just base it on looks, body....the superficial. If you like who you hang out with and they make you feel good even when you do not look at them....that might be the one.
2006-07-31 08:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by Master Kenobi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's love.I think that you have feelings for them both,but love no.If you loved your girlfriend you would not be thinking about her friend in that manner.Unless you call yourself a player,you need to get a grip on who it is you want to be with.Playing these girls could cause you to lose them both,and don't think that they don't talk about you because they do.They are friends you know.
2006-07-31 22:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to choose only one or try to stop going out with them both, you may loose yr gf and her friend at the end.
keep one to avoid loosing both.
2006-07-31 08:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by Wadjet Eye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible but not recommended stick with your girl and if it doesn`t work then go for her friend
2006-07-31 08:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by steamroller98439 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋