At some point when you least expect it he wants to come home and without saying a word to you just grab you, bend you over something and have sex with you. And we aren't talking about sensual love making, were talking about wham-bam-thank you mamm type action. During the act he will have little regard about your feelings basically it's gonna be all about his enjoyment. When it's over he'll simply leave you there and go take a shower or whatever without saying a word to you.
Would you make this happen for him?
Do you think you would enjoy it?
Would you think he's nuts for even asking for such a thing?
2006-07-31 01:40:38 · 22 answers · asked by DialM4Speed 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A few details...
1. I'm a guy
2. I've never done this or asked anyone to do it or even sure if I would ask anyone to.
3. I've never considered it to be a rape fantasy since the two people would already be in a relationship.
4. It's just something that's been rolling around in my head for a few years and I wanted to know what women thought about it.
2006-07-31 01:56:48 · update #1
There wouldn't be any anger or force involved. And if your guy is asking for your permission BEFORE it happens I don't see it as being selfish.
2006-07-31 02:01:35 · update #2
Spontaneity is a wonderful thing ! It can keep a relationship exciting and new! I say as long as BOTH partners are always aware of the other ones wants and needs and BOTH partners are in to reciprocation....then GO FOR IT!!!!! Yes, I would make this fantasy become a reality...and yes...I would probably enjoy it too! It is exciting to know some one wants you and even more so when it is not even a planned moment... every room in the house is fair game..in fact every corner...every floor...every piece of furniture, wall, doorway...(oops! I digressed and for a moment got caught up in the fantasy!!!) Just go with it!!!! Who knows...it can be the beginning of a whole new level of intimacy for you...you may find yourself getting "creative" (and looking forward to..) new adventures in romance...Keep the passion,and the fires within burning hot....but never forget the love, tenderness, and romance that is also necessary to a relationship...and reciprocate HER fantasies too!!!!!! Good luck!!!! and Good romance to you and yours!!!!
2006-07-31 02:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by photogram1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a selfish B******, but then also sounds like 99% of married men. They do it all the time. There's nothing wrong with a quickie, but not an angry one, which that sounds like from your description. Be careful though, he could be into porn, the angry, not talking part bothers me, like he's into rape. The not saying a word to you brings up all kinds of issues. Why? Does he not value what you have to say? Are you bossy? Boring? Is he dissatisfied with you in general?
In his defense, it could just be that he's sometimes too tired to go to all the trouble to "make love." Like I said, a quickie can be rewarding for both when still done in love. Happens all the time. What guys need to realize is that they are making love all day (or not) by all the little things they do, or don't do. The wickedly beautiful - just for you - come get me - smile, the wink, the sexy brush of the hand, they all add up... or come up short, and then we want the long drawn out version....It's the passion that counts, not the style, and - if his passion is all about you.
2006-07-31 08:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by savannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not nuts for asking that but I think the fantasy is a little insensitive. I know myself, that I don't want to just have sex at the drop of a hat esspecially if I am not aroused!! The fact that you would just get off and walk away is retarded I pitty the girl you want to share this fantasy with. You sound kinda self centered.
2006-07-31 08:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually ,its all apart of role play!!! You know ,the mind can be a very powerful thing!!!! It's all about how far you will let your imagination wonder!!! And fantasies are OK to fulfill ,if you have self confidence and you're sure about yourself then I say Go for it!!! all work and no play makes a dull boring relationship!!!! Have fun!!!
2006-07-31 08:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple, there is nothing wrong with playing a foolish slut atimes BUT NOT ALL THE TIME! and I'm entitled to my opinion, I won't be mad coz there were better times and there would still be good times ahead, BUT I'll hit back when he least expects, "put my phone on alarm,I'll get nude make him very horny, turn him on like wow, no matter how desperate he tries to get down, I'll tell him to relax since I'm in charge try and get the timing right! When the heat is on and my alarm goes off, I'll jump off, get dressed and vanish and make it look like it's a life and death affair! Now tell me who got served?
It's fun to play games and get away with it and wait for the better times ahead!
2006-07-31 08:54:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this is because you don't feel comfortable with it, and if you are not comfortable just don't do it, you will feel terrible afterwards, more than a fantasy this sounds like a rape to me. Buy him a inflatable doll, It sounds like it would be the same for him.
2006-07-31 08:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by carolina n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would do it. Not sure if I would enjoy it, though I would enjoy knowing that HE did, and no, I wouldn't think he was nuts for asking. Actually, I'd be glad that he DID ask... if I want my man to stay monogamous and enjoy a healthy sex life with me, then I would want to know his fantasies (as long as they weren't life-threatening, publicly exploitive to me, or just downright dangerous!) so I could accomodate him :)
I would however request that he wear dark sunglasses and a long, black duster coat ;)
2006-07-31 08:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol T-Time.Anyways this would be nothing new to me because my husband (stephen) lol is the same way.No i dont enjoy sex like that its usually all about his enjoyment thats why he gets none ne more lol. Anyways back to you i guess if thats his fantasy and you want to fulfill that for him it would be ok but once it becomes an all the time thing then your in a rut.
2006-07-31 08:45:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is his fantasy, and as long as you are okay with it go for it. You know he loves you so it is up to you. You could play it up a little. Be dressed in some thing sluT**! Maybe resist just a little play it up so you enjoy it with out making real obvious to him.
2006-07-31 08:44:55 · answer #9 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. You might even like it. Sort of a forced quicky kinda thing. The only issue I could see is that you may not be "ready" so he might want to use some lube so he doesn't hurt you.
2006-07-31 08:44:22 · answer #10 · answered by woodybmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋