2006-07-31 01:24:58 · 10 answers · asked by lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That would be "think" about her family, and I'm betting you do know why...are you jealous perhaps? Family is so very important, you should be pleased she's the kind of person for whom family is a priority and it's great that she thinks about them. Do you never think about your family?
Your wife obviously wants to be with you, or she wouldn't have married you. Don't feel insecure about her family. If you don't care for them, talk to her about it. Sometimes it can be difficult to get along with in laws and our spouses siblings and other family members...
...but if it actually makes you unhappy for her to think of them, then there's apparently a chunk of information you have not shared with us...deal with that feeling you're having...it should not cause you unhappiness for her to just think about the people she loves and spend a good part of her life with...
2006-07-31 01:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's showing you the door, then leave. Look, life is too short to live in a home where you are not appreciated, are disrespected and in essence you're living with a skank. Because everything on that list can be reverse to include her. And the only one that is not happy is you and only you can make yourself happy. What she is doing is affecting you and your marriage and as she does not care one way or the other, then she doesn't care about your happiness or her cousin's wife. If you do not have any children, just leave, do not allow someone to treat you less then you deserve. Tell her that her list is bogus, because unless she agrees to include herself as well, she's just another tramp looking for anyway out of this marriage, the least she could do is be honest with herself. So prepare and move out. This is not a healthy relationship and there are just too many women out there for you to settle for a woman with no integrity.
2016-03-27 08:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't really asked a question, so I don't know what to say. You have made a statement and put a question mark at the end. If you're asking why you get mad when your wife (I assume you mean "thinks") 'thing' about her family then I would say that subconsciously you are somehow jealous of the connection your wife has with her family. Unless, of course, she is neglecting you by her attentiveness to her family, in which case you would be justified in feeling a bit ruffled.
2006-07-31 01:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by lazor_braids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"when my wife thing?" What do you mean? If you mean when your wife thinks about her family...well,you are her family too.Do you get jealous or what?If thats the case,I bet you don't have kids.Then she'll NEVER think of you! LOL,just kidding.Tell her how you feel,but not when you are upset about something,you might act kinda defensive then and it'll just start an arguement.Wait till ya'll are okay,then tell her your feelings.
2006-07-31 01:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by Fluttery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,you need to understand that its her family after all,are you guys recently married?give her some time nad the best thing is to speak with her and let her know how you feel about things and m sure shes the best person to get you out of this....understand that she loves u and thats the reason why she is with you!!
you can controll someones thoughts,right?you should talk to her,involve yourself in her thoghts,if u think shes thkg abt them too much then m sure they have someproblems,talk to her and her her sort things and get out of it!!
2006-07-31 01:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be you feel neglected your self. But you need to get over it. She loves you or she would not be there and she loves her family and that is the way it should be.
2006-07-31 01:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you feel her will leave you?
don't worry
rember she is your wife and not just a friend.
her family is just that
give her some room to be happy with mom and dad to.
she still loves you, right?
2006-07-31 01:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by DENISE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she thing about her family?
2006-07-31 01:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by chastityelizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is a "wife thing" ?
2006-07-31 01:39:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat u asking!!?
2006-07-31 01:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by Marz-2kaii8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋