my parents dont want him,am 25 his 27 we have a daughter 11months,want to wed but my parents wont hear of it,currently am staying with them,they dont want me out of there site,his got a good job so do i.we been together 3 years,should i go ahead wth the wedding arrangments?
2006-07-31 01:22:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hell, Yeh!
2006-07-31 01:27:07 · answer #1 · answered by Titan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is unfortunate that your parents feel this way about your man, I am not sure why but whatever the reason is,
I am sure it hurtful because of course you would like to have their blessing. The bottom line is that you have your own life to live and you said that the two of you have an 11 month old daughter and you also have really good jobs. I think that getting married is the best thing to do at this point in your live unless your parents don't want you to marry him because of ligament reasons, if that is not the case then I would say go for it, start making those wedding arrangements. I am sure that once you take that step your parents will eventually get over it especially sense you and your boyfriend have given them a beautiful granddaughter. Good Luck!
2006-07-31 02:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by Thandie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a 25 year old woman for crying out loud. Time to start making some decisions for yourself! If you love him and he loves you then YES. Marry him. It will be the best thing that you can do for your daughter. Mommy and Daddy need to realize there little girl is a grown woman now. Time to start living your life. Best of luck to you.
2006-07-31 01:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by woodybmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are grown and should be able to make your own decisions. Do what's in your heart, and if that's marriage go for it. But if you have any reservations about it, don't.
You parents may have an insight that you don't right now because your are "IN LOVE". Do what makes you happy and if marrying him does that, go ahead, but understand you may lose yoru relationship with your parents.
But family love is great, if your relationship ends, they will be there for you.
Best wishes.
2006-07-31 02:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does your parents dint want him? find out that and try to give a cogent explanation to your parents that enables both of you to live together. Secondly you are 25 and your destiny is in your own hands, decide for yourself and go ahead.
2006-07-31 01:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by Watcher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea why your living with your parents. LIVE YOUR life. You go ahead and plan your wedding and your life with this man. Your parents need to back off, you are way beyond your minor years and they need to cut the cord......
2006-07-31 01:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best wishes - if you love him then you should go ahead. There comes a time when your parents can't control you anymore - especially with matters like this!
2006-07-31 01:28:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea ur grown really n u have a daughter n she needs to b around her daddy, thats unhealthy fo her and u and him. why r ur parents actin like that did he do something to u. u need to tell ur parents that ur not a lil kid nomore and u have a child and a respondsibility and that u love him. move out and start ur wedding plans gurl. good luck
2006-07-31 01:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by 8 Months in counting mommy to be 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deffo! Dont let anyone else dictate your life for you! Stand on your own 2 feet and follow your heart!
2006-07-31 04:18:35 · answer #9 · answered by dogs_dung 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both love each other truely, than get married. Don't do it to spite your family do it because you both want to be with each other. It's your happiness that truly counts not your parents.
2006-07-31 01:32:59 · answer #10 · answered by CJV228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why they don't want you to marry him. If it's something that they don't like about him personally, then you know they are just looking out for you. If they just don't want you to leave them and get married, promise them that you'll keep in touch with them.
2006-07-31 01:28:16 · answer #11 · answered by Lorraine_us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋