When we start having a conversation, i go stutters... like, H...hhi, ya.. yess. After a while she would give that weird look, like is this guy having a problem speaking or something.. After seeing that i will find some stupid excuse and say that i need to go somewhere or im meeting a couple of my friends... :(
2006-07-31 01:14:40 · 13 answers · asked by Weicheng X 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try some tips on this site on how to do that
2006-07-31 01:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
The very best tip for this thing is to start by saying that: "I am sorry if I seem a bit weird, but I'm just a bit nervous because I find you a very cute looking girl." Honesty works miracles.
And you can always do visualization practice in your mind in where you speak to a girl and don't have this problem. After a couple of weeks it will reprogram your subconsciousness and you won't have the problem any more.
2006-07-31 01:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by BonAqua Identity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly you need more practice. It takes balls to start conversation and not be scared. If you really want to start conversations then you should start by just sayin hi to random girls you see. Start slow with a simple hi and keep walking. The move on to saying like How are you doing? and then to actually starting a full conversation. It takes time and balls. If you really want to talk to girls then start with the Hi and keep walking and move up. Soon you'll get better. Don't stop until you feel more confident. Then you'll learn alot more. Besides no girl is going to say anything mean to someone they just met so you have nothing to worry about.
2006-07-31 01:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by Lite Boi Fresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are lacked of confident....The bottom line is did you tried to find out the problem inside you first.H...hhi,ya...yes maybe sound normal to you but if you put yourself in the place where you are the girl...Then what will you felt?1st of all put yourself in a win win situation.Dont be the 1 who respond only.Must learn how to bend it like beckham and just do it.....you can do it tiger!!!
2006-07-31 01:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with you , you need to gain self confidence , need not to worry . Just read and memories lots of jokes and ensure practice them in your privacy . When ever you open your mouth , you must be cracking a joke . You will surprise yourself with this small exercises , give a try .
2006-07-31 01:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look her in the face but talk with your sight fixed forward or upwards. Then gradually start, after you've regained confidence, to divert your sight towards her and thus you would overcome the problem.
2006-07-31 01:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh the fear of rejection. Many people will always try to come up with ways to get over thier fear of rejection, but it never goes away. Well I found a fool proof way of not having that fear. Do you have a fear of rejection when you are introduced to people? What I used to do is I would make alot of friends and they would introduce me to women they know and even thier girlfriends, and I would end up dating them. As a matter of fact my fiance was dating one of my best friends when we met. They were on the verge of breaking up and she left him for me and now we are planning on getting married.
2006-07-31 01:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by nshappe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the reason behind your problem is Lack of knowledge which leads to lack of self confidence.....
get to know all that you should so that you can talk about anything and everything under the sun,it will give a high to your confidence and you'll definately feel and behave better!!
2006-07-31 01:18:48 · answer #8 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and relax =]. she is not gonna bite and if the girl is a nice girl she will see that your a genuine about trying to talk to her. but just try to relax and see that she is not gonna do anything to you. just start a normal coversation and then from there you can ask her if she would like to go out sometime or something like that.
2006-07-31 01:18:56 · answer #9 · answered by ™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u 1st gotta find a close friend "a girl" & start talkin with her much.. then after a while let her bring another friend of hers a girl u dont know & start talkin 2 her with ur close friend sittin with u 2 help u out... then start talkin 2 another girl with ur close friend close but not with u .. then after that try once alone... u'll do it dont worry !! GOOOODLUCK !!
2006-07-31 01:26:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just, dont think about it! Just go with the flow... Just dont think about it and everything should be fine! Just pretend she is 1 of your friends that you hang around and it should be easy!!
2006-07-31 01:21:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋