it seems like i've been hurt so many times. how can i learn to trust people again?
2006-07-31 01:11:22 · 6 answers · asked by siliva_luna1905 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not advisable to trust people too quickly nowadays because you never know, that person might stab you in the back. Just be yourself. And wait until people earn your trust before trusting them. Take care and God bless ^_^
2006-07-31 01:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by I'm Complicated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't have to trust anybody in the beginning, a person has to earn your trust. You just have to be nice and friendly to everybody, that's how you will display a refined and warm character. People will start trusting you. And you will see straight away you can be trusted
It takes wisdom to know who we can be vulnerable with, and when. And it all starts with the ability to believe in ourselves.
It doesn't mean that there is something wrong with you or your decisions, trust isn't hard .... you have to use the time ... you have to learn to trust somebody, to get to know the person. You can't trust anybody from the first minute ... i mean .. what for?
2006-07-31 01:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by Shiry Madison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know that all people are NOT the same. By shutting down, you allow the previous person to win and control you destiny. The key is to allow yourself to date again, but when you see things aren't right, don't waste a lot of valuable time trying to make it right. Move on and eventually, YOU WILL find the right person and you won't have to doubt anything. Trust should be earned not just given.
2006-07-31 02:21:20 · answer #3 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was not easy to give trust again..if someone hurt u many times..but as a human being we can't live in dis world without trusting anyone it seem like your putting your self finding a thing that never exist...just trust people even if they hurt you again and again anyways its not your conscience to carry right!!it's der..
2006-07-31 01:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by KELEEN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of learning to trust, just forgive and move on, just love tilll u cant love no more, in the end, u will be happy. trust is justa nother word for love, if you didnt love somebody you wouldnt trust them rite, but sometimes people we have trust, dissapoint us at sometimes, but we got to forgive and continue to love them.
2006-07-31 01:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by beautyprincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is not a game to play again and again and again.Just believe on yourself.
2006-07-31 01:15:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋