and she looked pretty good. Ok let me explain the situation to you. Me and my boyfriendhave a daughter together and weve been on agian off agian for 3 years. Weve been together since Jan. Well while we were broken up he dated this girl for 4 months. Then got back together with me 6 months later. I just saw this pic of here in a binkini on the net and she didnt look bad and now Im intamadated because Im a lil out of shape because of the baby (130 lbs 5 foot 3) should I be intamadated? or should I be like I had his baby so just be happy with myself?
2006-07-31 00:59:54 · 21 answers · asked by moodymouse54 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is with you. You won. Go ahead .... do a little dance and be happy that you are together as a family. Go give him a big hug and a kiss right now just because.
2006-07-31 01:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by woodybmi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends. Men love to have very good looking women, in shape skinny etc. It all depends on what he likes. If you love him you would ask him what he thinks and try to look the way he wants. Then he will be more secure. For example, my fiance and I both have had a devorce and we both have a child with our ex's. Her belly was really out of shape from havin a child, but she has lost about 80% of it and I am really happy, I don't even look at other women like most men do.
2006-07-31 01:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by nshappe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll just make yourself crazy if you try to look like someone else "just in case" that's who your boyfriend wants you to be. Are you happy with your looks? If not, then maybe it's time to start an exercise program to take off the weight you put on when pregnant. If you are perfectly happy with how you look, though, then just let it be. Be happy with you are.
2006-07-31 01:05:34 · answer #3 · answered by Mary C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just read your question and as a guy I say no..who cares what she looks like in a bikini, if he did , he wouldnt have left her for you, and now that you have his baby he sees his babys mom as his soul mate and best friend..so what if your a little out of shape..you just had a baby..he wouldnt have stuck around for 3 years if he didnt love you believe me..remember she is the ex not you he made his decision.
2006-07-31 01:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by g m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be happy with yourself. who gives a rats *** what the other girl loook slike he came back to you and the baby YOU AND HIM share didnt he? dont let her image ruin what you and your boyfriend now have. good luck hun and dont worry about being a little outta shape. you have a beautiful baby to worry about not a few extra lbs here and there.
2006-07-31 01:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is based on a lot more than looks. Your boyfriend has finally realized what you're the one he want to be with and not his ex, so don't let her overshadow your happiness.
2006-07-31 01:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by greatgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to be tough but you should stop cryin and blamin the baby and get your a ss in the gym even though 130 aint bad but if you have a problem wit it do something about it
2006-07-31 01:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by HUSTLER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must have missed u in the 6 months time & thats why he came back 2 u, so dont worry b happy.
2006-07-31 01:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by I-Rahi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be happy...It is only because u had a baby...trust me..I ha one too. But as i got older...I was better of because I lost alot of it.
Dont worry..it will get better..worf for it..I am only 30 now
2006-07-31 01:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by myheartw84u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay thats sad. you had a kid with him and you guys are not married?? You prolly wouldnt have been out of shape without the kid. How old are you anyways??? And maybe he forgot to throw the picture out.. or maybe hes cheating on you.. who knows..
2006-07-31 01:04:28 · answer #10 · answered by dont_break_myheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋