How can I know that my fiancee is a virgin?????????

Question

My marriage is on next month. This is an arranged marriage but we do like eachother. But is that possible for me to know whether she is virgin or not? How can I know that, it's her first experience or not? Can i read it from her body language in our bed room or i need the help of medical science????

Answer 1

As u told us "This is an arranged marriage but we do like eachother"
u have answer in u r question if belive in her then she is
by the way u can see u r face in mirror too and this again about u
if u r virgin then she is also and u r not then she may not

Answer 2

While things may be different for an arranged marriage, if I had to ask my fiance whether she was a virgin and not trust her answer, I wouldn't marry her... Marriage is about honesty and trust.

Then again, arranged marriages are a little different to most.

(Oh and some of the things suggested here won't work. A woman doesn't always bleed on her first time, nor does skill or lack of skill in bed indicate anything).

Answer 3

The ONLY way you can have an answer to that question is if you ask her.

If she says yes, you just going to have to trust it and move on with your new bride.

1) Not all virgins bleed their first time. Her hymen could of been torn from different things other than sexual intercourse like running, horse back riding, or tampon use etc. Plus, female's masturbate. Get over it!

2) Her skill in bed doesn't matter. some virgins are great in bed while others need more experience/pratice.

3) I bet she is wondering the same thing about you. Don't put a double standard on her because she is a girl and girls' have to remain pure as males can screw around.

Answer 4

You will know - the first time hurts for females and usually the male to because of the tightness and their is usually some bleeding, but not always so if she does not that does not mean she is a virgin. Just remember to be gentle and use lubricant.

Answer 5

U can put your lips to her vaginal lips, Blow hard, if it sounds like a whistle, then she is a virgin, If the noise made is course and horse then she is no virgin
Its call The Blow Hole Test, Often done on cows in Africa,
works on women too In all parts of the world

Answer 6

The easiest way would be to ask her, but hear me out: she can be physically virgin (by having her hymen), and she could be much more experimented than you think. She could have had oral sex, anal sex... Those don't affect her "virginity", so you wouldn't know anyway. I don't know this girl anyway, but it's a possibility in every case.

Answer 7

It's always good to be extremely frank and honest specially when you are getting married. She will be shocked when u ask her, but at the same time her answer will settle all your doubts.If she gets offended, try and explain her that how important it is for you to know. All I have to say is that you should be able to convince her for asking such a volatile question. Good Luck!!!

Answer 8

Well u know what, u cant really tell. Physically, we are not capable. Of course, trust is important. All u have to do is ask. Ask her. A relationship is about being open to things like that. She should tell you if she isnt. If she denies it, then, just trust her... theres nothing else u can do.

Answer 9

are you a virgin yourself? If not, then don't have to check. The important clause is once married, love her with all your heart. Congrats and have a good marriage.

Answer 10

The only way to know is to ask her.

Are YOU a virgin? Why does virginity matter so much to you?


Medical science is bullshit.