Sexual partners?

Question

Just out of curiosity, what amount of sexual partners would you consider off putting?

Sorry this is not makeing sense for you lol it isnt that hard to relise what i mean ill give an example

Your partner has slept with... 6 partners before you would that put you off them or make you think of them in a different way?

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Answer 1

I guess it's an individual preference but it could begin to look like a player or someone with a commitment problem, hope they used protection etc etc. You need to be sure that they care, really care about you and treat you with respect and consideration then it won't matter what it was all about with any number of ppl in the past

Answer 2

Depends on how old u r .. if u old like me (44) I would expect any bloke around the same age to have had a few lovers tis a hard question to answer as its one situation where age does play a part wouldnt for instance be impressed if I was 18 and me bloke was the same age and he'd had a load to me he lookin for another number to add to his collection.. but then again we all different and thats wot makes the world go around.

Answer 3

Hello Pinky. I'm guessing that you didn't study beyond 16 years (GCSE's) Am I right? I get the 'jist' of what you're saying but reading it doesn't make sense to me. Sorry.

A person's sexual history isn't the most important thing. But you have to remember that your history is what makes who you are today. And who you are today will determine who you will be in the future. This is why I think it's important not to dwell on the past but to concentrate on the present.

Answer 4

depends on their age, if an 18 year old said oh 'about' 15, i'd think, sod off pal, you just want sex...

where-as a forty year old man who has had just 4?
I'd take him more seriously
my oldest brother has slept with at least 300 women, i think its gross, he's such a male whore, meaningless sex just because he could, he lost so many relationships cos he couldnt keep himself to one woman, and now he's paying for it

one night stands would be off putting

but 6 0r 7 over long periods of time is about what *I* would consider the norm.

Answer 5

Well if somebody has had a whole heap of partners that probably means that they don't take sex very seriously. I wouldn't like that.
I think if somebody had more than one partner for every five years that they had been alive I would probably think very hard before getting too close to them.

Answer 6

Depends what your indevours are like i would say 1 if i wanted to marry the girl but i have had a few more myself, Should n't judge people on the past, What is that person like now. Plus the more the better the sex should be!

Answer 7

Quite frankly... I wouldn't want to know and I wouldn't ask.... what difference does it make anyway?

This question is usually asked by insecure people that are constantly looking for self assurance...

If someone has had loads of partners before you, then chances are they will lie about it anyway.... most people (even men) don't want to come across as promiscuous.

Answer 8

My views on this subject is that sex should only be shared when the relationship is serious. I have never had sex with someone I didn't know and have never had sex with someone unless I wanted a long term relationship with them. I am 20 and I wouldn't sleep with anyone who has had sex with more than 10 people. Now as I get older that may change.

Answer 9

Personally i wouldn't like him to have slept with anymore than 4 or 5 If even. I think it's quite disturbing thinking of him with anymore.

Answer 10

Not sure depends on the person i suppose, and everyone will have a different amount that they find off putting.