me and my boyfriend were friends before we started dating and we could talk all the time but now since we are going out we cant seem to be able to hold a conversation. i mean i want to ask him things and be able to talk but i guess im just too scared because i dont want to say anythin stupid so i was just wondering what should i do!!!! thanks
2006-07-30 23:56:50 · 20 answers · asked by Ashley S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you guys becomes conscious to each other. You dont want to say stupid, because it might be turn off. But come to think of it, you guys are friends so you knw each other. He dates you because he likes you, he likes you as you are. So, why be scared of being yourself?
2006-07-31 00:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by lady_blou 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is friendship and so you are very lucky to go out with a friend. you guys were friends so it should not be difficult for you to talk. depending on the nature of the question you can tell him that you have no intention of hurting him or interfering in his personal space before asking him the question. don't ask him the question on a date or it could spoil the atmosphere. remember that every person has his personal life which he may not like you interfering in. also share something about yourself and this will help him open up. give him some time and space and everything will be alright.
hope your problem is solved. All the best.
2006-07-31 00:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by it's me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too hung up on the whole dating scene. Just because you are going out doesn't mean you have to put on an act. People who are afraid of saying something stupid end up not saying anything at all. Take a risk and talk to him like you used to. Otherwise you'll end up losing that part of the relationship which attracted you together in the first place.
2006-07-31 00:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by uselessadvice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you have stop worrying about what you are going to say because your boyfriend would not be dating you if he thought you were "stupid". So- that's an unnecessary worry on your part.
Second, just relax, be yourself, and ask him whatever you'd like.
In no time you will be talking up a storm...
2006-07-31 00:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the really adoring and loving individuals, even the stupid things uttered are aphorisms of the wise men from the East
2006-07-31 00:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here w/ my man when you first start dating it is great you barley know the other person so you can talk for hours after you know that person yes they do get a little boring at times to talk to so dont be scared and just talk about anything you never know you just might learn something new.....
2006-07-31 00:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry just try to relax with him more, like you did as friends. The more time goes on, the more relaxed you will be in each others company. Dont worry, its fine hun, good luck xx
2006-07-30 23:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by kelly d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happened to me too, you crossed the line of no return sorry u lost the friend and now its the lover now, when its gone then u may never see him, so when u split up try to plead with him to be friends again if thats what u want. U cant have your cake and eat it too,, their are unseen rules u dont see.
2006-07-31 00:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try talking to him like you did before you were going out with him, dont worry about saying anything stupid just go and talk
2006-07-31 00:00:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe yr man don't appreciate u the way u should be,get it out in the open,be honest u used to be friends u know him better than anyone else,ask him if he prefer for u two to be friends if not then he must act like he want to be in this relationship.
2006-07-31 00:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by naghtynite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋