Hi, I still love my ex-girlfriend and I need her to come back.
I've hurt her thats why she left me.But I know she still loves me.
I need some ideas to make her happy and come back to me, what do u expect from your boyfriend to do to win your heart back? what kind of presents would you expect from him and in which way? I've send her flowers, balloons...
please help me.thank you
2006-07-30 23:40:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didnt cheat on her, but I said some rude words that make her feel that she didn't do anything for me, I've been selfish in a way but I am really sorry
2006-07-31 00:02:18 · update #1
In what way did you hurt her?
2006-07-30 23:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Presents are no way to a girls heart? Haven't you guys ever learnt that? Pure honesty and repect. The fact that you have hurt her and not respected you relationship enough to hurt her. Think of one good reason why she should take you back? Don't use the frase "because i love her". What are you going to do to ensure that you won't hurt her again? If you really loved her you would not have hurt her in the first place.
If you really wants her back you first need to give her some space and respect, she's not gonna jump back in your arms over night, you need to win back her confidence, make her feel secure when she is with you, communicate with her. Don't keep on telling her that you are sorry that you have hurt her. Don't be to overwhelming. Just be yourself and be honest as possible.
2006-07-31 06:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by CJV228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah if she is really hurt then only time will heal her broken heart.I say you need not push the envelope because if you do she might end up thinking your crazy..If I were in that situation I would sit down with her and tell her how truely sorry I am and beg for another chance and reassure her that what ever it was that you did it wont ever happen again.Lets just hope she doesnt hate you..
2006-07-31 06:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you did...if you cheated....then do nothing because you've lost her forever and deserve the pain.
However, buying gifts is NOT the answer. You need to show her that you really do love and her care about her. Let her know that you've messed up and you are ready to fix it, if she'll let you.
What exactly did you do to hurt her?
2006-07-31 06:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by littlerandiheather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop asking her to come back and just treat her right and just try to be friends with her. When someones heart has been broken it is hard for them to forgive.
2006-07-31 06:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by Lollipop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you have to apolgise to her over and over again...try and assure her it will never happen again and mean it. Tell her how every second without her is tochure for you and how you nights are sleepless without her....
Most important is persevere asking her back no matter how long it takes....with time she will realise you are really sorry and will come back to yu.
2006-07-31 06:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by Louisa W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems that you broke her trust in you. The only way to win that back is to win that trust back. Good luck.
2006-07-31 06:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by Carrie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize to her and show her that u still care. Try to be a friend first.
2006-07-31 06:46:35 · answer #8 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've always loved when he comes back begging at my feet if he does somthing he would never do but knows that i like it. that would show me he truly cares
2006-07-31 06:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by love and basketball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her, her favorite flowers!! wid choclates hearts... an write her a little peom which describes all ur love to her!! itz soo romantic she love it
:D gud luck!
2006-07-31 06:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋