Why is it that when you fall in love your heart breaks from the fall?

Answer 1

This sounds like an excellent opportunity to extend an analogy way past its breaking point, but in a fun and informative way. Well, fun for me.

Imagine falling in love is like jumping into a big hole in the ground. A really deep, pitch-black hole in the ground with spinning saw blades and jagged rocky sides and big spikes at the bottom. But there's a ledge just before you hit the spikes, and on that ledge is a door that leads to the magical world of Narnia or something. I dunno, I haven't made it that far yet.

Anyway, when you fall in love (the deep, dark hole with various pointy bits) for the first time, you're not quite sure how to time your jump to avoid those spinning saw blades, or where all the really jagged rocks are on the sides, or where the ledge is... so you're pretty much doomed to failure. Sure, there are some lucky ones who make it through unscathed and reach whatever it is on that ledge, but most people get torn apart by the spinning saw blades, or ripped to pieces on the jagged rocks, or impaled on the spikes. Ouch.

Luckily, you get as many chances as you want. Maybe the second time you sort of twist your body around to guide the angle of your fall, or paid attention to when those saw blades come out.

Eventually, given enough tries, you may be able to make it through and land where you want. It all depends on how much you learn from each time you fall in love and it doesn't work out.

So, to answer your question a lot more simply, your heart breaks because love is a mysterious, dangerous unknown that nobody can really tell you much about and that you have to figure out gradually on your own by taking incredible risks. Keep trying -- I know you'll get to Narnia someday.

Answer 2

That because we fall in love with imperfect people and when we demand perfectness from them, we always get dissappointed.

We too are imperfect people. Times change, things change and people change. Nothing really stays the same all the time without sufficient maintenance. Sometimes, we find it difficult to let go and move on. Our hearts long for something that isn't there anymore. Which is why it hurts.

There is no perfect relationship in this world (other than God)
But that doesn't mean we stop loving. We just need to adjust our expectations.

Answer 3

8ea rt never breaks , you feel betrayed , reason when you posses anything , you don't want to loose and feel very bad , in other term we call heart break , you are so sad to be looser , thats it .

Answer 4

The percentage of feelings you have put in.

Answer 5

beause u feel he entirelu urs and cant think of lossing him

Answer 6

so why do you go on such a height. ;)