ok i dont wanna be gay i like girls and wanna get maried some day but i dont get turned on by girls i get turned on by guys and im really ashamed of it and im a christain and im a strong beleiver in god
2006-07-30 23:02:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
ok i dont wanna be gay i like girls and wanna get maried some day but i dont get turned on by girls i get turned on by guys and im really ashamed of it and im a christain and im a strong beleiver in god
ok the above statement is what i first said im gonna add more...... ok I DON'T WANT TO BE GAY not cause im afraid of what people will think i just dont want to be.... ok its like... excuse the language im gonna use here but its like my dick says im gay but my mind and everything else says im not like im atracted to girls but my penis is saying something else i date girls dont wanna date guys in fact i have a crush on this girl right now and really wanna go out with her and i like her a lot.....
2006-07-30 23:24:21 · update #1
This is just devil in you who is forcing you to divert from the right way.The devil wants to take you away from your God.If you are a strong believer and love God then you will have to defeat the devil and change your prospective and the way you see things now. STOP yourself right now otherwise your will have to repent for the rest of your life.Force yourself to not to listen to your internal wrong desires.Develop strong will power and conquer over the devil.
2006-07-30 23:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's a sure way to tell if you are gay or not...do you think about guys or girls when you masturbate...simple...you can't lie to yourself here.
Sounds like you are gay but you are scared of the social disapproval you might get and from family etc...It's great being gay once you come out and start having relationships and good sex...it's the hiding and not having sex that can make it desperate and unpleasant.
Self-acceptance is healthy and it sounds like you are at least half way there in realising it's guys you are attracted to, don't marry to hide your gayness..that's a recipe for disaster and you'll wreck your own life as well as your wife and kids lives...
Move to a new town and see how you go for a while if you aren't sure...always have safe sex! use condoms!
2006-07-30 23:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are youth groups in a lot of places that can help you talk about these feelings and sort through them. Sometimes it helps to talk to someone and it could just be a phase (although I don't think it is).
I don't honestly believe that God would make someone gay and then punish them for being what he made them to be.
I had this same problem when I was younger and I found that joining a youth group was really helpful in getting me through that time.
You can still believe in God and be gay.
2006-07-30 23:06:20 · answer #3 · answered by superspongeseven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to your feelings.
Build your intelligence.
Contribute to healthy / beneficial friendships, networks, social associations.
Flourish as a human being.
Love God, truth, righteousness, justice, mercy, peace, and good will.
Some Christians are going to tell you that homosexuals are scum and are going to hell.
Some Christians are going to agree (somewhat) with what I said at the beginning of this post.
Some Gays will tell you there is no God, so don't worry about it.
Some will agree (somewhat) with what I said at the beginning of this post.
2006-07-30 23:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by My Big Bear Ron 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 08:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by porterii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should face it and admit to yourself that you are gay or have gay tendencies which makes you bi-sexual. I think 40% of the worlds population has this predicament. You need to be honest with yourself and your partner or partners before you go starting a family.
2006-07-30 23:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Temptation is not a sin, keep fighting the good battle, By fasting and praying the Lord will give you victory. Remember he who persevere to the end shall be saved.
2006-07-30 23:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get turned on by guys
then you are GAY
solution ..
> Toss the stupid bigoted religion because it is just WRONG.
> Accept the scientifically established and evidenced fact that being GAY is natural and OK.
> Live life happily loving the man of your choice and accept just likening girls.
2006-07-30 23:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by PlayTOE- 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont be ashamed of who you are , god made you like you are for a reason ..even if that dose indeed mean your gay .
2006-07-30 23:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by Diane26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God will take it away and chip at it till its gone. Have faith, stay away from temptation and pray about it. Fast about it.
2006-07-30 23:06:08 · answer #10 · answered by storge07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋