This last school year, I began dating one of my guy friends of 3 years from college. He was always the mushy one, sending I love you texts daily, and affirming me that I was “the one”. He routinely had me come spend time with his family because “I was going to be part of the family soon”. He made constant comments on how cute our kids would be; We’d drive by parks and he’d want to stop to see if it would work for our wedding. His brother told me he had planned to propose to me the next time I came down to see him. Then two days before I was supposed to come down he called and told me he loves me but has “never been IN love with me”, has been leading me on, I deserve so much better, and that he can’t be my “lover” or be “involved” anymore… but he still “wants to keep our friendship & doesn’t want to lose me”. Now it’s been a month, I’ve only heard from him twice since the breakup & his parents only heard from him once when he needed the number for pizza hut!!!
2006-07-30 23:00:57 · 14 answers · asked by swmnfreak86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he found someone else.
2006-07-30 23:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by retrac_enyaw03 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We hear you. We are sorry that you have to go through what you went through.
Try not to guess his intentions or if there are any motives (good or bad). It is because he is the only person that can truely answer it and by guessing a lot of times we put ourselves in bondage trying to think out something that nobody (except him) can answer.
Get a grip of yourself and move on. I know it's easier said than done but after a few knocks, you can just shake it off.
2006-07-31 07:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by Luke Lim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either been leading you on for sex, or has found someone else and is on drugs, or a complete and total ********. I'm betting it's all of the above. Move on with your life, there's better guys out there!!
2006-07-31 06:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by drewsilla01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is lost may b he may addictedto some stuff. usually this kinda ppl r a bit in their own world.
Also nother thin may b he has found someone better.
So u better get him hell out of ur mind n no need 2 b sad life doesnt end here u need 2 move on.
2006-07-31 06:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by hauntingskull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... that is strange happens all the time... but strange nonetheless... just thank God you didn't get wrapped up in some big drama other than that. Boy has issues.
2006-07-31 06:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didnt understnd abt the part wher u told his parents only heard it frm him wen he wanted pizza huts number...has he moved out to somwher.....something shud be worryin him,...he seems to be a nice guy.....but ther shud be some reason for such sudden change in his feelinge for u.....maybe hes sick ...maybe hes got somethin worrying him...u need to talk to him sis.......find out wats the case.....somethin shud be worryin him
2006-07-31 06:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are still in school and you were talking about marriage? What's wrong with you?
2006-07-31 06:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl, never believe a word a guy said.... it's all fluff and puff! and then when he founds out you're so into him, he'll leave you like a rotten old garbage....
2006-07-31 06:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by Felicity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep ur friendship alive
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best of luck
2006-07-31 06:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has found someone new and doesn't know how to tell you.
2006-07-31 06:04:27 · answer #10 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend probably found another girl
PIZZA HUT!?!?! THAT'S F_IN CRAZO!!!!!
2006-07-31 06:05:59 · answer #11 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋