2006-07-30 22:53:02 · 25 answers · asked by angel 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It all depends upon you that what you think about sex before marriage with the girl you are going to wed soon. There is nothing wrong in doin' it.
But in my opinion, you should wait till that special night; the craving of having sex with your wife will give you more pleasure on that special night, if you abstain from the same till that time.
2006-07-30 23:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by sandgarg 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you and your partner are from a conservative background, then it is better to wait until marriage so that you will not have any guilty feelings afterwards. But if both of you are liberal thinking people, then it is not a problem. The important thing is you should be commited to your relationship and take enough precaution to avoid pregnancy and related problems before marriage. It is the trust between both of you that should remain solid. Don't make your lives too rigid by always thinking about what is right and wrong.....
2006-07-31 06:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by yuvan53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there,
I stumbled across your question and I have a slight answer that might help you troubled mind.
Sex in general is a very very very spiritual act and one must practice it with caution. When talking about having sex before your wedding, you must understand that there are laws that comply to this. In a spiritual manner it stands that you are giving life to your child without complete spiritual bond between father and wife. The aspect of having sex in the light of marrage, you are mound to your lover and you can happily have a child.
Spiritual studies have said, that when one conceves a child under the laws of marrage, you are giving a piece of your spirit you the child and this is SO true.
The apsect of having a child outside of marrage, you are opening the gate for other deities to intervene, and by saying this, I mean that the void that there is, it must be filled with other emotions, feelings and understandings. This is a big choice to make, to allow other spiritual interferance to play along.
But if you feel in your heart that you are happy and that you will be joyous, then your heart is set and you are prepaired for it.
Take care.
Kind Regards and good luck
2006-07-31 06:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by Lord Laeto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By asking the question you have already formulated an answer. For you it is not fine. You are thinking about it and that makes it an issue in your mind. Be true to yourself in anything you do and you won't be sorry.
My wife of 35 years and I did. I don't think it hurt our relationship but if either had been concerned it might have been a different matter.
As I said earlier, follow your heart, it never lies...
2006-07-31 06:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youre both Christian and walking with the Lord, then wait. Its the best present you can ever give eachother and shows lots of love. LOVE IS PATIENT
Hebrew 13:4 - Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
2006-07-31 06:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by storge07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a Christian, you should know the answer to this! It is wrong for anyone to have sex before marriage - God made these laws to protect us, and they make sense.
Can you imagine what kind of world we would live in if people adhered to this? A very different one to the one we live in.
2006-07-31 06:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is fine to have sex after legal marriage and it must be avoided before.So before marriage never have sex with your fiance and wait till the wedding night comes.
2006-07-31 05:59:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absoultly Nessessary.
2006-07-31 05:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by just_kickin_back_mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to asume that you speak of your fian'ce in this question. Depending on your religion, you may go to hell or perhaps marriage is merely a piece of paper and as long as you're in love it's ok
2006-07-31 05:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by CJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex before marriage is not allowed and prohited by GOD according to the bible. you should retain your virginity until after your legal marriage with someone you love and someone given by GOD to you as your life time partner
2006-07-31 06:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by Jesus M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋