My cousin is currently living w/ me and my girl, and my girl has given him a specific timeframe to stay. When this time runs out, he will not be able to afford a car and a place, but he has decided that he would rather have a car than an apartment. He said he could stay in the car until he can afford a place to stay. Tell me what you think, so I can have some other opinions to show him.
2006-07-30 22:50:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Having a home is more important. Where would he bathe and all.
2006-07-30 23:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by Cymalon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't stay in someone's house forever, that's for sure, so it was good of your gf to draw the line!
About him having no place to live, you forgot to mention if he has a job! cause that's what he needs to get first of all. He can find someone to share an apartment with (and pay rent) and pay intallments on his car. That's what everyone does these days, even if you're just fresh out of college and your pay is not brilliant, it works for most people.
2006-07-31 05:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by Foxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your cousin has a place to stay, he could clean up for job interviews. Plus you have to have an address for numerous federal programs. I suggest having a place instead of a car.
2006-07-31 05:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by dxle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope he is single because if a man as immature as this is married I really pity his wife. if an adult does not know how to prirotize its his problem. If he is confident that he can live in a car forget it cos you have done ur bit to help
2006-07-31 05:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by agonychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to get his act together!!he cant live with you and ur gf, then it would start infringing on you time together and dont forget the reason for living together to to have alone time and to get to know each other better.
Your cuz needs to build a life for himself otherwise you will become his safety net. and you dont want that!!!
2006-07-31 06:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by buttercup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Stupid.
2006-07-31 05:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suffice it to say, I would not go out with a guy who lives in his car.
2006-08-03 23:06:43 · answer #7 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF in this life he can't afford then have to be wit u for whole life la...
tell him that he need to have pressure to make thing happen...
give pressure to him so that he really workout for it...
2006-07-31 05:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep. a car over a place to live? is he challenged?
2006-07-31 07:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by badgurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a truck is roomier to live in. Better yet, a van
2006-07-31 05:54:29 · answer #10 · answered by CJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋