I went on a first date with a guy i just got to know for only a week. Halfway thru the date, he began to lay his hands all over me which made me feel uncomfortable. If a guy is really sincere about a gal, will he do such a disrespectful thing to her on a first date? Or is he really out to have fun only?
2006-07-30 22:35:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anythingoes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A decent guy will not do such a disrespectful thing. My feel is that he's just testing water and see how far he can go with you. The more you don't protest against what he does, the more he thinks he can just do what he wants.
Thus I think he's just someone who wants to have fun, and probably will never be serious with you. Move on gal!
2006-07-31 03:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by DumbUglyBoring 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
for me, the idea bout going on a date is to know my partner better. so that i can determine whether she is the one or not. but if your guy did that, means he's just in it for sex. and has ino ntention whatsoever of a longterm serious relationship. the problem is , most girls actually feels ok bout that, thay also want to have some fun just like what the guys want. but if your really think it as a big problem. then those guys aren't worth it?
if it was me, and if the girl is THE one.
she could get naked right in front of me.but the only thing i'll stare is her eyes. nothing more. and the idea of fooling around with her turned to be disgusting for me. you're on the right track, keep it up
2006-07-30 22:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by @lun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have been testing you. Of course guys want to get with girls. You will know later. If he doesn't call and apologize, or offer to make up somehow, forget him. If he does check back in and wants to go out again, perhaps you should take the opportunity then to establish some ground rules, including public places and avoiding being alone with him until you can trust him.
Just a thought, but have you considered that you chose the screenname, anythinggoes. if that is an im address, perhaps you may wish to reconsider that.
2006-07-30 22:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis Y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show no respect, how to continue with this type of guy. Forget him, drop him off, you will never regret. Make him learn a lesson for missing such a good girl like you. Take my advice.
2006-07-31 01:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's out to see how far he can get.
Guys are animals for the most part and respect is not in their vocabulary, if they can get laid, that's what they're going to do.
If you ever go out with him again, make sure he knows, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that you don't want to have sex with him. If he likes you, he'll agree and keep his hands to himself, if he's just out for Fun, he'll have an excuse to take you home within the hour.
And don't fall for the line; 'Well, if you liked me, you would.' This is actually a threat saying that if you don't have sex with him, he'll dump you like a hot potato and nothing good ever comes of it. Tell him "No thank you, take me home now, please." And go on with life. You'll be happier in the long run for it.
2006-07-30 22:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. Personally, if a guy really liked a girl and he wanted to go further than just a simple kiss and holding hand or hugs.. He would ask the girl's permission.. On the other hand, there are guys who are a bit forward and do what they wanted without asking.. Don't misjudge them.. When they became too forward on you, do you even stopped them or do anything to make them stop? If you did and they did stop, it means they have this 'respect' on you.. If they continued to force on you.. Hello girl?! Red light! Don't even go further with this person..
2006-07-30 22:40:14 · answer #6 · answered by Lei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually a honest guy will never even hold hands on the first date ( coz u kno him for only a week). I think hes just having FUN with u
2006-07-30 22:38:59 · answer #7 · answered by M u Z z I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how the girl acts.if she flirts with alot of guys all the time guys will think she is easy.if she just flirts with one guy that she is attracted to then guys won't know if she is or not till after a date or two.
2006-07-30 22:41:23 · answer #8 · answered by casper g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a pig.he was looking for one thing and one thing only.if a man really enjoys your company and respects you, he will wait till the time is right.he'll get to know you first and maybe even wait for you to make that type of advance.
2006-07-30 22:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by retrac_enyaw03 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what do you expect ?? if i was on a first date and i want
to continue seeing this girl ..I would want to know that every department is in good working order know what i mean???
2006-07-30 22:43:45 · answer #10 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋