because i am not getting out with her.but i dont prevent her to go out with her friends.but she insistently wants to go out with me.yes it seems very easy to solve this problem.but i hate to go out and be with the crowd and insolents and purposeless people.what do u offer?
2006-07-30 22:20:17 · 13 answers · asked by Frollo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is a long relationship.we r together for 18 months.and dont u think it is rubbish to leave or finish ur longterm relationship for such a stupid reason?
or i am not old enough to know about girls?
:/
2006-07-30 22:30:52 · update #1
Dear me, I always wonder why people continue to hurt each other, sounds like she doesnt want a relationship, so "chin up" boy, let her go, but you must seperate and get on with life, it is too short to be worrying about her. She is not for you anyway, there will be someone for you when the time is right. It also sounds to me like you have an inferior complex about being with other people, is there a problem somewhere in there? Maybe join some clubs that interest you, where people understand what you feel, I am sure you have friends. Good Luck
2006-07-30 22:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take charge and pick the places you want to go and take her with you. She's sounds outgoing and just needs to feel alive. Once you get out, it's never that bad. In fact, a lot of times it ends up being fun. Don't be a couch potato, try different places. You wouldn't like her if she was a couch potato. And when you're at home, have people over that you like and plan things to do. I've learned to make sushi rolls and saki bombs. I like to play ping-pong, watch a good movie, play pool, play cards, or take a walk at the beach or the park, rollerblade, etc... Wear her out during the day and you won't have to go out at night!
2006-07-30 22:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by giselehere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you're just different people. Instead of agonizing over this get over her, there are lots of women like you out there, I'm sure you'll find one.
I don't know where you met this girl but if you are not looking for people who go out all the time meeting girl in bars or other similar places is a bad idea. You're better off chatting up girl in a book store.
2006-07-30 22:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm no longer attempting to sound propose and that's meant without offense what so ever yet ARE YOU stupid? this guy needless to say doesnt experience the comparable for you as u experience for him. If he has yet another lady chum which he shouldnt interior the 1st place and then places u 2nd thats unexceptable and you need to break up with him, cut back off all touch with him and in keeping with possibility you would be friends once you recover from the break up. basically save repeating to urself in ur head hes no longer good adequate for me hes the single thats dropping each little thing that mattered no longer me! basically encompass urself with friends and you will ultimately get via it! Dont experience to undesirable approximately being cheated on it wasnt ur fault ur stupid bf is basically mentally ill to offload certainly one of those committed female such as you. It happens to surely all and sundry quicker or later.
2016-11-03 08:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by porterii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply let her know tactfully that you don't mind going out with her in a public setting. Furthermore, allow her know that you don't mind her hanging with her friends because of your busy schedule and that is the main reason for your insistence on having quality time alone with her. To criticize the crowd that she hangs with is to allow criticism of your crowd as well. Tread lightly, tactfully and above all be honest.
2006-07-30 22:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by The Good Humor Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a difference in the people that you are. That, you can't change. It sounds like it's a big enough problem for her to be a deal breaker.
The only thing you can do is to talk with her to find out if you can find enough of a balance to continue your relationship.
2006-07-30 22:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by justwebbrowsing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've got bigger problems than losing your girlfriend!
i think you should learn how to interact with people-- all kinds of people including what you call insolent and purposeless...
im getting this picture of you being anti-social...
you know what, it's like telling your girlfriend is like that. if you tell her that you don't want to go out to avoid her crowd, no wonder she left you!
2006-07-30 22:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by killerweed_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, the idea of going out with someone is to now her inside out, and that information will be used to consider whether that person is "the one".
in your case have you tried to explain to her that you realy hate goind to crowded place?
if you havent then please do explain to her, she might understand, explain that it would be great if she understands this one out of your other problems, and that this is very important for you.
if you have explain it to her. but she just wont listen, then what's the use of holding to someone, and trying to understand someone who doesnt even try to understand you. it's just not worth it. good luck
2006-07-30 22:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by @lun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invent other things,like watchin a gd movie at home etc.. so u wont be in d crowd but still enjoy
2006-07-30 22:25:37 · answer #9 · answered by scartissue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u can't make her happy and she can't accept what u want it's not a good way trying to stay with her .but u have just one way, going out with her.
2006-07-30 22:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋