Im taking a girl out on tuesday night and im a bit stuck for ideas can anyone help ? I had a few drunken fumbles with this girl a few years ago but wasnt up for any kind of relationship but know we are both a bit older (25) i like things to progress further so i want to make a good impression from the kick off !
2006-07-30 22:13:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her and more important , listen to her. take an interest in what she is telling you... The first date is all about getting to know her. personally I think restaurants are too formal, better for later dates. A nice bar or quite pub would be my suggestion ( have food if you want) , particularly if you can find a quiet table in the corner or outside in the garden. If possible take a stroll as part of the evening. It's often easier to talk when you are walking.... make sure the kiss tells it all but don't push your luck too far on the first date.
Good luck
2006-07-30 22:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ellie G 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
One thing that comes to my mind is a nice quiet coffee shop or someplce quiet where you two can talk and get to know each other. Try some miniature golf or a bookstore. Whatever you do, the first few dates shouldn't cost more then $40. This isn't because you are a cheapskate or have no money, it is because the first few dates are supposed to be where you get to know each other and determine if there is BF/GF potential. Whatever you do, don't go out to a club and do not get drunk on the first date.
2006-07-31 05:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be a good idea to get her something: a tiny box of chocolates, or a rose (you can always cut the stem and hide it in your pocket if you are not comfortable with having to carry it!) to show her that you were thinking of your date. If you are going out for a coffee or a beer and you don't know what to talk about or feeling a bit nervous there's always a cinema remember? dont' forget, women like to be told that if you men like them, all little details (you know if there are some you shouldn't talk about) would only be a benefit. And another important thing of course, try to be yourself.
2006-07-31 05:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out and take her to her favorite restaurant. Followed by a horse drawn carriage. Then, a blanket in the park to look at the stars. I realize that you are a bit older, but every woman wants to feel like she's the most important thing in the world. FIND WHAT SHE LIKES! Good luck on your date!
2006-07-31 05:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by Monique Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all do not drink on this date as it has hindered you in the past. To repeat the same mistakes does not show maturity or intelligence. If she asks why you are not drinking then tell her that you are trying to make a fresh start of things and do not want to blow it as you have had in the past. I am very sure that she will respect you for it and points will be made. Take your time, respect yourself and her and don't have any expectations as they usually always end in disappointment. Good luck!
2006-07-31 05:21:36 · answer #5 · answered by The Good Humor Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a nice pub some food glass of wine and a nice chat, you cant talk in clubs and you dont want to end up like last time. and pick her up in a taxi from her house. make sure you iron your shirt have a shave and make sure you smell great, clean shoes.
Have a great time and no sex on the first date, date a few times before that enjoy dating it can be fun. good luck
2006-07-31 05:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by Sally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly be yourself if you both got something in common take her on a date involving that perfect date no 2 coming up. Do something that involves you can talk. i don't know ten-pin bowling this is low key and you can both enjoy yourselfs and you won't feel awkard like sitting in a restaurant trying to make small talk. Good luck
2006-07-31 05:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by jules 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanna make an impression? Spoil her with a lot of shopping and good dinner and a good night kiss to part company.
2006-07-31 05:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about finding an nice restaurant in the country so you can sit and talk to each other. Far nicer than a club or restaurant that has loud music.Too impersonal, don't forget to tell her she looks nice!
2006-07-31 05:34:25 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no dun try to leave a good impression cuz u will be actin all the time to make it
u should be ur self of course dun dig ur nose in front of her but just dun act like someone else just be ur self cuz u sound like u really want it to work so if u do then u want her to want u for who u r so just be ur self unless ur a freak lol but i'm sure someone cares this much is a freak!
2006-07-31 05:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋