how can i get a girlfriend?

Question

i don't have a girlfriend

Answer 1

they sell them in front of stores now, usually late at night they sit right off of the curb.

Answer 2

It is usually harder for guys to get a girlfriend than it is for girls get a boyfriend. For all those who are unlucky in the love (or lust) department, follow these steps to become Mister Smooth.

Steps
Do not pick a target girl.

Pick a location frequented by a significant number of girls, where you feel fairly comfortable, perhaps a place that is conducive to a skill of yours: music, public speaking, private intimate conversation.

Scope out the pickings. Pick one or two or three. Keep these in your mind as "potentials".

If you feel you have gotten to know any "Potentials" well to ask them out, go ahead and do it, worst thing that could happen is that she says no, then she's at a loss. But not you, you've still got the others.

Appearance is key. Clean up for a high class city girl. Dress down for the fun loving motorbike chick.

Be funny. If your not naturally funny, don't try to be around her, pitch jokes to other people, see how the jokes do with them. If you get no laughs there, just pray, because its gonna be hard winning a girl without humor.

Keep up a good posture, walk steadily and smile. Women do not like slouchers. Bad posture gives an air of unconfidence. Smiling makes a guy more welcoming. A good walking style, (straight back, a hand in the pocket and taking well distanced strides) gives the impression of intelligence.

Talk. Silent guys are as annoying as peas. (On the other hand, men who do NOTHING but talk and NEVER listen are annoying too.)

Look and touch. Looking into a girl's eyes shows respect and interest. A firm handshake, a gentle pat on the back, a light touch of the hand and other subtle gestures allow the girl to feel connected with the guy.

Feel great. The feeling will radiate and affect the lady too.

Don't pretend to be someone you aren't, you may think you will win her round with it but in the end it will backfire, find a common interest, something you both like. if she likes a band and you don't, lie about it, and listen to them till you change your mind.

Tips
Put on great smelling aftershave or cologne. Research the best selling ones at department stores. A good scent really turns a woman on.

Guys do not need to look like Brad Pitt to find a girlfriend. Just keep hair, teeth and nails clean and neat. Ladies are quick to notice little details especially in the hands and faces.

Be a good conversationalist. Read up on the latest in politics, entertainment, arts and even sports news. Women love a well informed man. It makes him look well-educated and, therefore, richer in every aspect. Or just actually be well educated.

Do listen to the lady before responding. Women do not like to be cut off. They like to be considered and feel important.

Do pay on the first drink, first date, first taxi cab ride, etc. It makes a gentleman out of a man.

Most importantly, offer to walk or drive the lady home (or anywhere she wants to go). This makes the man seem sincerely concerned for her well-being.

Don't annoy you girl by texting her every night. If she texts you, reply but unless you have something to say then don't text. It gets annoying when someone keeps texting you saying "i <3 u".

Don't be unsubtle. Yet it is important not to be so obtuse as to be unreadable.

Warnings
Do not stalk the lady!

Grinning like the Cheshire cat is creepy.

Taking over the entire conversation is over-bearing and rude.

Do not insist relentlessly on an offer when the lady has turned it down. It may be that she has no use for or does not feel good about the suggestion. Pushing her to accept will only increase the possibility of rejection.

Avoid being a close talker. Nobody likes that.

Answer 3

Gabe, women like interesting men. Are you interesting? Try to be. It takes a few things. For one, they like to see that you are a master of your own destiny. Are you reasonably successful? Do you have funds to support you? Will you be able to impress her with a bit of lifestyle and a vision of where you want to go in life? Are you funny? Humour is an aphrodisiac. Are you good-looking? I don't mean like a magazine model, but do you spend time making yourelf look good? Do you wear nice, fashionable clothes, and do you spendd money on the way you look? These things are important. Do you have a skill, like playing an instrument, or can you draw or paint, or speak foreign languages? All these things impress females. It may sound heartless, but they are, in essence, and deep down, looking for someone whose genes appear to be worth proliferating. If you can generate that impression about you, and if you manage to seem like someone thy feel at eae with (but without being bored - there's got to be desire on their part!), then you're on your way. If all this sounds like too much - just get an old DVD starring Erroll Flynn, and watch what he did. Granted, he was gay, but women love this stuff. Good luck (P.S.: It worked really well for me!).

Answer 4

dun try to find one!
as long ur looking u wont find and if u have found u will have the wrong gf,u should stop looking and wait till it happens so u can take ur time to make sure she is what u want and who u want and not just jumb to date any available girl cuz u might end up hurt like hell so just slow down u have all th time for it!

Answer 5

Walk around. fate plays a big part in this.
when u got girl-hunting, u will never meet her. when luck is here, even by digging your nose while waiting for your hotdog bun on a street, u may just see her.

good luck.

Answer 6

you better get some confidence boy. its time to be a man and start selling yourself like a salesman. i recommend hanging out with a guy who gets a lot of women and mimick his style. be cool. be funny and only let her laugh at your jokes. you should laugh at her jokes if she ever tells one. watch george clooney in interviews and his movies. he's slick and a major player. james bond style always works. rent those movies and try to be like him. you'll be alright player.

Answer 7

Talk to them. They're not an alien species, you know?

You want to know the greatest pick up line in the world? Walk up to the lady of your interest, look her in the eyes and say "Hi, my name is ."

Answer 8

Ya shud not want just "a girlfriend"

Ya shud want a special girl ya want to BE your girlfriend

I know ya will do, so good luck

Answer 9

Become rich and if necessary get some or a lot of plastic surgery.

Answer 10

get girl u might be interested in or go in a hobby ur interested in and ull also probly meet another girl sharing same interests.