I have gone out with him for 2 years, recently i discovered he has been flirting with another lady and they even want to sleep together....
should i walk away heart broken or fight for him?
2006-07-30 22:02:06 · 8 answers · asked by Louisa W 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can you "fight for him" when he doesn't want to do the same?
If he is being that disrespectful. It is time to kick his sorry butt the curb and find you a real man who knows how to care and love a women.
Don't settle for less than you deserve.
It is one thing that he is lacking something and you two work on what it is.
Him wanting to sleep with this girl and flirting is way beyond the limit he crossed.
2006-07-30 22:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should act as a lady because if you go and fight for him he will see that he is so important and you do love him so much at the end you will be the one to face the music and he will walk out of you to show the other lady that you are nothing to him?just be yourself and move on with your life and dont show him if you care just go on and that when he will know how important you are.show him that he his too small for you that he did a good thing to go.be happy always do as if nothing happen he willstart to ask himself alot of question.be a lady dont be cheap i hope you are not?because only the cheap one fight for left ove. i do hope you are not one of them.if he tries to come back dont agree because is the same way he did for you is what going to happen for the second one.so be expensive that even his love cannot buy it.if you agree he will break your heart more than you ever imagine so dont let it repeat it self.
2006-07-31 05:13:46 · answer #2 · answered by mima t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never have to fight for a man. If you have to fight for him he's not all that into YOU. Put out the trash and move on. Life's too short.
2006-07-31 05:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by Hidden .38 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him there are faithful men out there! You don't want to be second choice,and if he really cared for you he wouldn't of let you find out about the flirting or his desire to stray!
2006-07-31 05:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by katie k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, only if you think he is worth it, if not drop him quick, beat him to the punch. Make him the fool and not you, because if he ends up sleeping with her then that makes you the fool and thats probaly what he wants.
2006-07-31 05:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by fourwheelergirl_7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is really yours then you won't have to "fight for him". If you do, then he was never yours to begin with.
Flirting is not cheating. Wanting someone is not cheating. However, make it very clear to him where your boundaries lie when it comes to fidelity and if he doesn't respect them, run and never look back!
2006-07-31 05:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by No Drama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away.
find someone who is interested in only you. being heartbroken only lasts so long, but being with a guy who isnt in to you will just will scar you for the rest of your life.
dont be a coward.
2006-07-31 05:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by GungaSocialWorker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run don't walk! Now if your into three way action and the other girl is down too well......
2006-07-31 05:15:22 · answer #8 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋