older woman dilemma?

Question

I took this mom out on a date that has two kids. She seemed ok, but i dont see myself in a serious relationship with someone this much older than me. She talks as if she wants a relationship and I don't quite see it working. However, I still want to hit that because I haven't stuck it to someone that old and it might be fun. She invited me to go to the cabin with her one weekend but she is bringing her kids! and she is stopping by her mothers house. I couldnt just say 'hey kids go to bed while the young man bangs mommy'. And meeting family? I would feel worse. Should i hit it or just move on? My friends say go for it but my gut instinct says no.

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Answer 1

Follow your gut. There are plenty of single, unweighed down by kids older women for you out there. She wants a relationship, you don't. End it now before she gets even more into you.

Answer 2

Initially I had the idea of giving some sound advice but when you asked if you should "just hit it" I realized that either you are too young to even ask this question, or just a typical Dog. That statement is the main reason women resent men. Obviously you don't know what she wants let alone yourself. Pretty sad when kids come involved and they are just a crutch to you. Women with children are one thing but to take on another mouth to feed as I see you are just a little boy. I hope she gets a grip and faces the reality that she needs a man and not some youngster with no concept of a real relationship. You are a sad representative of the male population. I hope it doesn't work out at all! thanks come again!

Answer 3

Go with your gut and be a real man not a boy. Just let her know that you are not ready for a relationship of such a grand magnitude. Reassure her that you think she is a great lady but that you don't want to hurt her by leading her on.

Answer 4

listen to your gut, man. Don't do that to the kids.