should it be me again?

Question

why is it when a person fell inlove,they lose all of their wits? count me on that coz i think i am experincing that.met this guy once then after 4 months without any communication,we met again.i invited him if he wanna come to our picnic party and said yes.but then,he told me he has a girl already.i made an excuse to call it off once i knew it but still,insisted that he'll come.bringing his friend.i like him actually.but knowing that he has a gal,i wanted to cut all oppurtunities to be with him.got no plans of luring him.don't wanna hurt her gal coz i know what it feels like coz i've experienced that too.but what am i to do?i like him a lot! should i sacrifice again my own happiness as what i always do just as not to hurt other people?or should i be greedy now even just for once?i believe in karma and don't want to experince it? is there any way i can just make this guy remember me not just in his mind but also in his heart? for whatever the future might hold for the 2 of us? or what?

i forgot to add this..it sgould have been us long before but because of this particular incident caused by this women..wour paths never crossed again nut until last week..

Answer 1

It sounds like the best way to handle it is to cut him off. If he is in the middle of a relationship and it is serious, then you need to stay away and move on to someone else. Get out there and date many people as you can. Don't take dating seriously. The more people you date, the better your odds of finding someone special enough to have a loving relationship with.

By moving on a dating other guys, you will probably get over him real quick as it is more his loss than it is yours. Life is too short to stand around and wait for someone to become yours when they may not want you in return.

Answer 2

leave the guy

Answer 3

IM me and i will tell you