for me its impossible to say but a nice smile and soft eyes always gets my attention then u got to have a good sense of humour somebody who looks interesting not the same boring sheep style that everybody else wheres
2006-07-30 21:01:08
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answered by hairy_homer 2
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See this could start a debate...
As most guys go for looks.. I know you can't see personality but the girl/guy could be buff (hot) and you just see that and on getting to know them you see that they are a pain, dumb, artificial to name a few... Then the other girl who wasn't exactly a size 10 has a GREAT personality and lovely smile.. but you ignored her or walked past her because she doesn't LOOK a certain way
I believe society is too hung up on looks and if you just go for looks then you are very shallow as looks are NOT everything and doesn't constitute for "the perfect woman" - no one is perfect and because they have extra pounds on them compared to the likes of Victoria Beckham/Jordan - SO what they could be the ideal woman for you and you let her go...
For me nice eyes and a nice smile are all i need to be attracted to a guy i would rather get to know his personality as i want my partner to be my friend as well - not just a trophy on my arm. I appreciate that "personality" is not a physical trait but something you see afterwards but those that say breasts, and slim figure... this was more so aimed at you as a "trophy girlfriend" will not make you happy forever!!
2006-07-30 21:52:43
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answered by Anonymous
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You still don't know this by now? Looks of course! I'm serious, if you're hot, you can get away with anything. I mean most men would like you cos most would sacrifice dignity for ***, no, they won't admit it, but it's true.
However, a good personality puts you over the top, smile a lot, and have a generally laid back vibe about you while still being funny. Not too sensitive but girly enough to slip on that little black dress and manolos when you have to. And food....learn how to cook, that's huge, a man likes his food. But like I say, if you really want men falling over you, be sexy, conservatively, not slutty, although that works too, and don't sleep around, you'll attract the wrong guys and get little satisfaction from it.
If I were you, I'd just concentrate on improving myself rom within though, it takes longer, but it's sooooo worth it. And your light will shine from within, EVERYONE will like you then. And you'll know what you want, and not care about all men liking you, but care about finding that right person you like, cos you deserve it right?
2006-07-30 21:06:14
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answered by monotol 3
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In looking for a girl...
On first contact...
(0.1 seconds) Attractive eyes - the kind that say "yes i'm happy with myself"
(2-10 seconds) A nice curvy figure (I hate stick thin people, and I hate people who are obese)
(10+ seconds) Somebody with more than one brain cell (I hate people who have lonely brain cells... not Einstein but you get my point)
and just to finish it off...
(less than 24hrs) Can I actually get along with the girl or are we so different it'll never get anywhere.
2006-07-30 21:35:07
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answered by donnchadhjh 2
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Depends on what they want the girl for? The night or a longer relationship I suppose.
I don't know the answer to this, men confuse the hell out of me.
2006-07-30 21:06:24
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answered by Saccharin 3
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Attractive appearance, intelligence, sense of humor, similar values, makes me feel special, independent
2006-07-30 20:45:29
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answered by Anonymous
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Someone sexy,fun but with a brain
2006-07-30 20:46:11
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answered by SNVL 3
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Someone who is not going to mess you around
2006-07-31 00:37:24
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answered by del 1
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They look for what is different from their's. know what I mean.
2006-07-30 21:01:21
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answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4
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just her brain because if she use her brain ,she will appear cute and pretty in the other people eye.
2006-07-30 20:52:24
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answered by someone 3
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