Theres this guy at work who is a total and complete sweet heart that i swear i have fallen in love with. Hes perfect in every way except one: hes married. i talk to him alot and flirt but he doesnt push me away or even give me any sign that hes not interested...in fact, its the complete opposite and he flirts back hardcore...what to do?
2006-07-30 20:26:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys love to flirt, most of it is harmless, but if he is flirting that hardcore, he is only looking to add another notch. If he is truly happy in his marriage, he can flirt and know where the line is. I am sure his wife wouldn't like to know that but, most flirting is innocent. I would suggest finding someone else. Even if he wants to proceed with you, it will be at least a year before a divorce can go through and then he will not be looking for a serious relationship right after that. Just get out while you are ahead. Don't stop talking to the guy, but don't push forward either.
2006-08-01 10:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by Highroller 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Crush On Married Man
2016-10-15 06:38:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey he is off limits. Don't worry about what other people are doing, because if something wrong is going on they will have to answer to it one day. It's best that you mind your own business. You really don't have any right to be jealous because he never was your man. You really need to work hard at getting over it. And if you can't, then get some help. Always keep in mind, and I am a believe in this- if he cheats, and the wife finds out. He and the other woman deserve everything they get and whatever the current wife say to either of them. If they have balls enough to cheat they should have balls enough to hear the wife rant and rave.
2016-03-13 05:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by Simonne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure if you have ever been married, if you have not I can tell you that he most likely is not as sweet and wonderful as you think he is. I am positive that one time he treated his wife just the same way he is treating you right now. Most likely he says his wife is just no fun, doesn't like sex any more, and they fight all the time. Think about what you are doing, It sounds like you are looking for a fantasy, it's (NEVER ) as simple as it seems. Just because he pays attention to you doesn't mean you should go forward with it. Have respect for yourself, and stay away from him. I'm sure he would like to have his cake and eat it too, married men are always wonderful to those they have affairs with. Remember you will always be the other women with a married man. You don't want to tell all of your friends " I have a husband.....he's just not my husband." If you are serious about this guy ...tell him to get divorced first....this will tell you how wonderful he is..........
2006-07-30 20:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by light2 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
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I have a crush on a married man?
Theres this guy at work who is a total and complete sweet heart that i swear i have fallen in love with. Hes perfect in every way except one: hes married. i talk to him alot and flirt but he doesnt push me away or even give me any sign that hes not interested...in fact, its the complete opposite...
2015-08-13 11:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl that is normal for an opposite sex to be attractive to each other. However, it is not easy to unwind a mess when you fall in love with a married man.
You will hooked and he will try to get loose. Please sistra, for your own good, control your heart. Use your head not only your heart. Head calculate the damage, and heart goes with your feelings. With your heart already involve with your emotion, you can now count only on your head to help with your decision.
He might be interested in you if his wife is not giving him satisfaction in bed, it does not meant he does not love his wife. Once he had enough of you, he will move on to another one but still love his wife. So get out before you destroy yourself.
Nothing wrong with liking what he looks like, but now it leads you to something else. So girl stay out. I am talking from experience. You will end up making yourself work hard for his attention when he think of whats best for his family.(life with wife).
2006-07-30 20:40:29 · answer #6 · answered by Farani P 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Been down that road sweetie. I was working days and he was working nights. It went as far as us emailing each other dirty letters. I was 18 or 19 and he was 23. His wife knew he flirted with me and she hated me. Needless to say he was a supervisor at my job. When I would do jobs he would corner me and flirt hardcore. It was hard, and jealous but in the end it is not worth it because if he did it to his wife, he'll do it to you too. By the way they are divorced now.
2006-07-30 20:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by kat_08_2001 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
oh help me not to scream.
Let me get this strainght....you have a crush on a man who has been through a marriage ceremony where he promised to love, honor, respect, be faithful to a woman that you haven't met. There might be cute little kids in his life. You see nothing wrong in tempting him in to being untrue to this commitment he made.
Lets say you have an affair with him and you fall in love with him and he says he will never leave his wife and kids. Suddenly you are the other woman who sits alone at holidays and you get his left over time. And you wait and wait until you are old and gray.
Or here is another senerio.......the two of you hook up, He gets divorced. You have the kids everyother week, The X wife gets the house and nice car. He lives in an appartment so he can pay spousal support. He marrys you, and in a couple of months a young sweet looking secretary at work starts to flirt with him and he starts haveing sex with her after hours. You fuss about him not being around enough. You fussing makes him stay away more. You want kids and he says he has already had a family.
He stays with you becasue he can't afford another divorice.
So this married man who flirts back hardcore......does he still seem like a dream to you?
2006-07-30 20:38:08 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 5⤊ 5⤋
proceed with caution or you are going to get hurt. Guys love to be flirted with and if he is married, you are more likely to be used as a one night stand and then dumped. Which means he'll end up breaking your heart.
2006-07-30 20:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
u should know tht liking a married man wont get u the love which u deserve -only for u. and believe me, u also wud not like ur husband turning up a way tht man has. u should try to be only casual with u. ur relationship wont take u anywhere but in dumps.flirting is all right if it is healthy. if not, ask him to mind himself. i am sure u will find one made exclusively 4 u soon.
with best wishes for future.
2006-07-30 20:31:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋