I am inlove with a girl that has a boyfriend..I told her that I love her even though she has a boy friend but I told her that I'm just saying it to get it off my chest..I don't intend to separate them or anything..few days later..I ask her again if She has feelings for me...and she told me that she has a boyfriend and I said yes I know and I wanna keep it that way..I said I just wanna know if she had some feelings for me..and she said I'm a nice guy and blah blah blah...after that I SAid thanks..then she called his boyfriend and told everything about it..her boyfriend wants to fist fight me...please tell me if what I did was wrong..all I wanna know if she has some feelings for me...if you satisfy me..you'll have the best answer..PEACE OUT!!
2006-07-30 20:25:44 · 17 answers · asked by DjNick08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
before I forget..she asked me if I was mad..I told her yes..coz she doesn't really have to tell his boyfriend about it..it's just a simple question..ps...that was the last time that were gonna see each other..shouldn't I tell her my feelings..
2006-07-30 21:00:21 · update #1
You just wanted to get it off your chest? No you didn't -- you were hoping she'd turn around and tell you that she's been in love with you all this time and she'd just been hoping and praying that you'd have feelings for her too. Then she'd see the error of her ways and dump the other guy. That's what you really wanted, deep down, isn't it?
You put her in an awkward position, you got her boyfriend understandably defensive, all for some selfish little reason.
We've all had feelings that haven't been reciprocated or returned fully, and you just have to deal with it. Suck it up, take it on the chin, like anyone else. You're playing childish games with her and if you really were in love with her you wouldn't put her in such an uncomfortable position.
2006-07-30 20:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by epiCure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never a good idea to interfere with other people's affairs and asking a girl who has a boyfriend how much she likes you is kind of doing that. But it seems to me all the three of you have not acted in the smartest way.
1. You don't want that girl to leave her boyfriend, so where is the point asking her what she feels about you. It is normal to talk about this if you see some future in her, now it seems a bit selfish.
2. If this girl doesn't want to leave her boyfriend, where is her point in telling you that she thinks you're a nice guy. Well, I don't know what she said of course, maybe it wasn't wrong
3. Why does she talk about it with her boyfriend, that is strange unless she felt very unpleasant about it.
4. I can imagine that guy is angry, but to start fighting about it seems so pointless.
sorry I can't be more positive about this situation.
2006-07-30 20:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by meiguanxi :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have some sort of feelings for you. It does seem like her current b/f is a little bit controlling. That's why she felt the need to tell him what you had said. And most likely she was bragging that another guy liked her as well. As for the boyfriend wanting to fist fight you, he sounds extremely J.E.A.L.O.U.S!!! Thats another good sign that this girl probably likes you.
2006-07-30 20:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably did do the wrong thing. If you didn't intend to seperate them, then it wouldn't matter if she had feelings for you. And, sorry to say, but as soon as she said that you were a nice guy it meant that she did NOT have feelings for you.
If this was the old days, her boyfriend would have to defend her honor and duel you to the death. You're getting off easy with a fistfight.
2006-07-30 20:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by mgrazus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The songs "The Way We Were" - by Barbra Streisand... sold 4 million copies because it points out how... "Memories may be beautiful and yet... what's too painful to remember, We simply choose to forget... So it's the laughter - We will remember... Whenever we remember... The way we were". My point? (Besides trying to get Babs another couple hundred hits, on iTunes).... You B/F's Ex is his EX for a reason. That reason likely hasn't changed... the Ex-Girlfriend - has forgotten that reason. Should they try it again... they would likely fail at it again. My advise? Don't blow this out of proportion. Obviously - this girl means less to him... then you do.
2016-03-27 08:00:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with all of you. You may be just want to satisfy your ego and that is normal. Her boyfriend just does not want to loose his face to say that he wants to fight you. Your girlfriend also just being honest to tell about your feeling to her boyfriend. However, she told you already what you have expected. Now to resume all of this, I would suggest you to ask apologize from her for all of this conveniences. Good luck.
2006-07-30 20:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by sastra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it once, you shouldnt have pressed it a second time. now her boyfriend wants to pound you, shes made it clear she doesnt feel that way about you, she told you, that is how she feels, no she has no romantic feelings cant you read the writing on the wall???, i dont know how to keep you from being beaten other than never seeing her again.
2006-07-30 20:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all gotta think, have you known her longer than her boyfriend? Two its just a question he shouldnt get mad so ask it...3 if he gets mad anymore knock on his back ni55a
2006-07-30 20:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,for one thing....you did the RIGHT thing!But that gal of yours was just a pain in the ***....(no offence)well,now if you are looking for a way how to get out of this big mess...call her and say that it was a big joke!or just be brave...and remember if you think u r innocence...then there is no point of being scared...always bare in mind...LOVE ALWAYS WINS AT THE END!----peace in...hahaha...good luck dude!
2006-07-30 20:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by nabila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the girl was just annoyed and well you could have waited if she broke up with him. but yeah it is wrong but also it is wrong for the girl to tell her boyfriend but also wrong for the guy wanting to fight.
2006-07-30 20:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by Tegan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋