have you ever loved someone so much you tought your gonna die without them,but then theyve hurt you so bad like cheated on you,lied to you stoled from you and your kids you have by them,called you every name in the book,and your tired of it and you know its time to let go and get on but easier said then done and its killing you bad and messing up your mind??????
Ive been with this person for 7yrs and it was good at firt but turned worse and worse over time.we have three kids together one is a newborn july 19 06 and hes in prison for voialating a restraing oder because we both can not stay away from each other.he keeps going in there over and over because we always wanna be together even though we know were not gonna stop the drama between each other.we write and talk on the phone even though were not suppose to but we keep doing it,cause I think its a sick addiction and we do have three babys that we alway talk about awell cause they keep crying for their daddy...any advice?
2006-07-30 20:22:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ditch this guy and get those crying babies a new daddy!!
2006-07-30 20:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I am really sorry. Well my advice would be to leave the guy (although I know it might be painful for you). It is still the best you can do for yourself and your children. My sister used to have a boyfriend like that who wound up in prison and after time she realized that she can do much better and now has a boyfriend who doesn't fill her life with drama. I hope this is of some help.
2006-07-30 20:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's one of two;
eaither u work it out and try to fix it.
or u just stop trying coz sometimes it doesn't work.
keep on trying this is what i think 4 the babies' sake u know.
let some of u friends get between u and fix it up 4 u.
good luck and may god be with u.
2006-07-30 20:28:50 · answer #3 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to stop it. not for your sakes but for your kids. dont you want your kids to grow up in a safew secure loving happy home instead of one with only drama. a lot of women stay because they are scared of being on their own with kids but i will tell you its better to be alone than with someone whos rotten for you. all of you deserve better. move on with your life and be happy. good luck.
2006-07-30 20:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both want to work it out, you HAVE TO GET COUNSELING!!! obviously you both have a desire to try to be together but you can't find a healthy way to coexist or even communicate. you need to get professional help. you'll both be happier, your kids will be happier. they will help you find out what your issues are with eachother and you can both work on them and move on as a couple, as a family. best of luck to you all.
2006-07-30 20:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you must be very patient to tolerate such behavior. I can imagine how difficult it would be for you.
But I wonder if love means to sacrifice yourself for someone who doesn't do the same for you.
2006-07-30 20:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by Farhad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on with your life if he cant stay out of jail hes no good for u or u kids
2006-07-30 20:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by bigdog10210210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yap i have the same past to you.!? even though I'm a man but still my heart was fully hurt by my past gf.!?
can i talk with you,????
my email ad.!?
"gwapo_si_jimmy@yahoo.com"
or include to your messenger lists so both of us can have a long talk about it.!?
2006-07-30 20:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by cute_si_hayme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife is doing the same to me and i miss my son.
2006-07-30 20:48:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to forget this man.i know its not easy but at the same time not impossible.atleast for the sake of kids.and their future.
2006-07-30 20:32:58 · answer #10 · answered by sanjivmedical 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋