Hey. Any advice on getting a guy?

Question

I'm fun and kinda cute, but I am chubby which works against me like a lot, and somewhat shy, altho at times I'm not afraid to speak my mind. I can get a bit annoying cuz I'm on the phone/IM like 90% of my waking hrs (no lie) and so like if I call and you don't answer I call back and call back like several times like once every 5 min. I really want a bf and I really dont know why guys dont like me. If u wanna see a pic of me like a couple weeks ago go to my myspace 360 page and I have 3 pics up. IM me or post advice...GOOD advice that I dont have to be very outgoing for. Thanx!

Answer 1

It doesn't matter what you look like, no sane guy is going to put up with an obsessive controlling annoying girl...(but as you can see you'll get plenty of creepy 18 year olds willing to go out with with because they only care about sex and not what you have to say anyway)......get a life of your own so that you actually HAVE something to talk about

Exercise a little bit if you're worried about looks
but you're not that big, and you're still young so you have a lot of time to develop

Answer 2

your very young yet, the baby fat will go away, the men will flock 2 u. 4 now, just chill, theres no big rush 2 get a bf and now is the best time 2 make as many male and female friends as u can, when u hit the party scene and the guys r trying 2 get at u, u might not want that and the friends u make now will b there 2 help u get rid of them and when u go through tough break-ups, u need your friends. dont concentrate so much on bfs. its not all what u think it should b.
good luck

Answer 3

You look a sweet chick


Don't be in a hurry to grow up

and you are looking for trouble if you answer Email replys like that first one here


if I say I am 14, how would you know I was not 50?


if you do not have a BF then the wrong ones are about, the right one will come along, be patient. (do I sound like Mom now, hahaha) it's true though, me an your mom have both been 13, an in the dark ages it was tough then as well.

Answer 4

Be yourself and conduct yourself like the respectable and unique young lady you are and don't worry about "getting a guy". They will be all about getting you (figuratively). Just be a lady, really. Show your maturity and good taste, treat respectable young men accordingly, and you will have a surplus of guys.
You have a sense of humor? Let that show. You care about people? Let that show. You love life and yourself? Let that show. Oh, and leave the black lipstick and the eyebrow piercings at the goth shop. Just be yourself. You are enough!
And relax, you're only 13. Enjoy that.

Answer 5

ei, u're right, u are cute, well this isnt a very nice advice though it might help you a lot.. dont look for a guy just wait and pray for it..you dont need to rush up things, it might end up in nothing if all the things are rush.. just wait for your turn.. and if you can reduce your time on the phone/im.. it will help you a lot..you didnt know maybe someone is trying to reach you, but your phone is always busy.. so just sit tight and try to relax.. ok??

Answer 6

All you have to do is find a guy that you like. Then you need to get to know him. Then start to flirt with him and complient him. Then if he starts to flirt with you back that means you need to move on to the next step.Then you need to invite him to meet some of your friends and your parents. Then get to know eatchother and then you decide if you really like him or not. If you do then you need to ask him to the movies and tell him how you feel about him. Good luck and another tip is to have fun doin this things.

Answer 7

You gotta stop obsessing! You're young too, so don't worry about it so much. You're definately a cutey, but I think you should just chill and be more laid back and the guys will come to you. Try to make it so the guy thinks that he likes you more than you like him. Don't be mean or anything, but don't let on that you like a guy too much.

Answer 8

First and foremost, it's nothing wrong with you being chubby. Instead of using such a violated word maybe you can say "I'm fluffy, thick or Curvaceous". We as women must demand respect from everyone or else we accept things (men, relationship, etc.) for all the wrong reasons. I'm a 29 years old, single parent of a 10 year old. It's absolutely nothing wrong with me. I'm independent and thinkly highly of myself, I love me. Plenty people are scared of being single at my age. Fortunately, I just met this guy the end of last year and things are going so smoothly most times, it's scary. Needless to say, I was needed in his life at the time because he needed guidance. He wanted the love of a woman but the discipline of his mother. I took him out of the streets, he works on a daily basis and he life has taken a new direction. He is riding in a 2006, his very first new car in his life. He now has his own home so we moved in with him. Together we make over six figures but when I met him he didn't have a dollar saved. Our account is a little chubby now (not me as a person).
I say all of this to say, you must put yourself in position to bring something to the table; otherwise, men will run in and out of your life. It's up to you to find out who's seasonal and who is suppose to be in your life for a lifetime. Don't misunderstand what I'm saying don't let anyone use you for your mind, body, etc. Ladies act like ladies! Don't buy clothes because they have your size buy them because they compliment your body shape. Leave something to men imagination. If you don't they don't need to get to know you because you have all of your business in the streets already. Take good care of yourself. Get your hair done, feet done, and most of don't have any type of negative attitudes. If you have one, it will take some time but you can change that image of yourself. Nobody wants to be bothered with negative people. Don't engage in gossip!!! Messy girls are always kept in the dark. Love yourself first and someone will see how much repect and love you have for yourself and they will want to know why. I'm still single by choice, not by nature. I didn't settle for anything or anybody. I waited until God move me to be in the right place at the right time. I would've waited until I was forty if that's what he wanted for me but he has allowed me to make plans to get married in Vegas in November. My life isn't the greastest in the world, by far, but I'm happy. You demand respect and keep the faith. There is always somone out there for you. Don't rush it! Last but not least, allow that man to have some flaws because you do. My baby surely have faults but I'm here to help correct all of them. When you get a good man, you'll change automatically. You will do things you never imagine yourself doing for a man. That's what having a good man is all about. He will complete you. Where you are weak he will be strong. I don't cook, can't dance, and don't like the outdoors. My man is totally opposite of me and where he's weak I have his back, 100. I hope this helps you because God loves you and wanted me to remind you that he can dream a bigger dream for you that you will ever dream for yourself.
tsr

Answer 9

be cool
i guess talking on d phone 4 a long time is not good. u have a life, dear! that's why u dont meet guys coz ur juz talking d whole day.
go outside & socialize. guys wont know that ur fun to be with if u'll not mingle with them

Answer 10

i found a website which is similar to myspace, http://www.friendscyberclub.com/ this website has all the features of my space like the photo upload, view pictures and profiles, forum, chat, message board, also there is a leader board, just like this one, see your name on the leader board, and you can also get to the top of the leader board, this site has both the features of yahoo answers and myspace,