if so all men cheat!
2006-07-30 19:31:52 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It didn't bother me when my X husband did it, until I saw that he was looking at underage girls...
THAT bothered me.
But normal porn? No, it just means I'm getting some tonight!
2006-07-30 19:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by daydreamnamy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is when your partner is sexually unfaithful, dishonest and deceitful. So, I wouldn't consider it actual cheating If he is straight up and open with you about looking at adult video tapes.
You got to look at it like this, he could be out there doing worst, honestly.
The best thing you can do if you feel threatened by the adult video's is watch them with him. See what he is into, ask yourself are you comfortable with it. I know this may sound crazy but this will give you a chance to see what your man is really into. And you never know you may enjoy the video's yourself.
If you just can't get into the adult video thing with him, yet you dont wan't to lose him, tell him "If you're going to look at them adult videos, please be discreet, I don't want to know about it".
As, long as your man is not going to far left with his sexuality, it is ok. I always said a man's sex tape collection can tell you a lot about a man.
Now, if your man is watching adult movies all the time with/without you, this could mean there is possibly something lacking in your own sex life. But an occasional video here and there is no need to panic. This is just something most men have hidden in their stash.
So, I would definitely evaluate him, the tapes, as well as your own sex life. Once you determine your sexual limitations with him, you can then determine if you two are sexually compatible. If you are not sexually compatible with your man, you're most likely not spiritually compatible with this man as well, so you may want to ask yourself, why are you with this man.
Don't live life in the dark,
Master Psychic Rachel
2006-07-30 22:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't consider it cheating. I consider it being a man, cause that's what men do. My view is its better to look than to do if he's your man. Ladies should join in with their man and have some fun too.
2006-07-30 19:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by Zeta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it's not cheating. but a man should not hide it, and if the man is in a relationship and the woman expresses an honest distaste or disgust for your habit, out of love you should cut down on the porn. but, just so you know, hiding the porn doesn't work and makes the woman REALLY REALLY mad. a better propostition is to try to get the woman into it, and see if you two can enjoy it together.
2006-07-30 19:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by alexitexmexi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 08:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's all perfectly normal after all Men functions visually, & you may use it for guidances.
As long as you dont get too obsessed with it & neglect the Other half by playing with yourself.
2006-07-30 19:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by crashonme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not considered cheating at all. Sex with another person is cheating. Using a masturbatory aid, like porn, is not cheating.
2006-07-30 19:35:09 · answer #7 · answered by shawnybaby82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. cheating is when a men goes and touch another girl in a way you should or would or have touch your girlfriend or wife.
2006-07-30 19:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No me personally I don't really care if my man looks at porno because he's not touching another woman. It relieves pressure from us woman not to have to relieve him every time he feels horny. Well that's just my point of view.
2006-07-30 19:37:53 · answer #9 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMFAO no not unless he watches the porn then wants to do me and he keeps his eyes closed then I know he is picturing the porn star LMFAO The things I think of LMFAO
2006-07-30 19:36:45 · answer #10 · answered by zombie_girl_84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋