I live in IN but am originally from LA. I moved back there for a month last year, right before Katrina. A guy and I started talking but I ended up moving. We talked for a whole year, almost like we were b/f and g/f. This past summer I went and visited. I called him and he came over, and we spent the next month basically by each other's side. We fell in love. Our passion for one another was so strong. Of course we moved way to fast, but other than that, we were perfect. The last week I was there was hard, but we made it. Then two weeks later of me being home, he broke up with me. We were taling about marriage and kids and . .we connceted so well. How could he do this to me? Did he use me? The things that he said to me were amazing, and even my brother was shocked that he broke up with me. I figure we would stay friends, but he ignores me. I don't know how to get over him. I think about him all the time and wonder if he thinks about me. How do I stop loving him? Thanks
2006-07-30 19:28:51 · 11 answers · asked by sschultz89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u probably wil never stop loving him, but if he feels the same way about u he will coem bak. he didn't use u. all u need to do is sedn him an email and let him know how u feel, i gaurntee things will change.
don't let a man break ur heart
2006-07-30 19:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by sophie 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Honey, the only thing that helps is time. Stay busy, treat yourself extra special, spend time with friends, avoid songs that make you think of him, have a good cry every now and again, have cocktails with girlfriends.....It does, and will get better.
2006-07-30 19:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
connect with other friends and try 2 get a main hobby and while doing dat u could someone esle interested in da same hobby...and play online games...takes ur mind off love lifes and at da same time still meeting other people.
2006-07-30 19:33:02 · answer #3 · answered by AsianLion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 zanax, a bottle of vodka, a pint of Ben and Jerry's, and anything with Johnny Depp or Joaquin Pheonix
2006-07-30 19:42:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was an ***... give it time. its gonna hurt for a while, mayb a long long time but sooner or later it will b a thing in the past, just a guy who you once liked and another guy willcome along!
2006-07-30 19:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear it but it's over and for whatever reason he wants nothing to do with you. So I would say get rid of everything that reminds you of him and get on with your life.
2006-07-30 19:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy doesn't want to know you ..he obviously used you... he probably has some one else .being away from someone ..you know what they say out of sight out of mind.....
you just remind your self that he used you ...and it becomes easy to forget him good luck
2006-07-30 19:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by JJ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell himm after kicking him out of your life lets b friends
2006-07-30 19:32:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
treasure what you had in your heart....the pain just never go away. and try to start fresh- i know the feeling
2006-07-30 19:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will tell you what to do just alowe it to pass
2006-07-30 19:32:13 · answer #10 · answered by status quo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋