I'm fun and kinda cute, but I am chubby which works against me like a lot, and somewhat shy, altho at times I'm not afraid to speak my mind. I can get a bit annoying cuz I'm on the phone/IM like 90% of my waking hrs (no lie) and so like if I call and you don't answer I call back and call back like several times like once every 5 min. I really want a bf and I really dont know why guys dont like me. If u wanna see a pic of me like a couple weeks ago go to my myspace 360 page and I have 3 pics up. IM me or post advice...GOOD advice that I dont have to be very outgoing for. Thanx!
2006-07-30 19:25:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love yourself, and become someone worth being loved and the rest will work itself out. I have met women that were comely and overweight, some with skin conditions, that just had this inborn fire that attracted me to them in a strong way. I have also met women who were beauty incarnate who were also soulless husks that I would never find interesting.
Anyone who cannot overlook any physical disadvantage to see the beauty within is someone who you should not want anyway. It would be beneath you to accept them, and you are worried that they won’t accept you?
2006-07-30 19:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, there are a lot of men who like chubby girls.
Don't feel that you have to lower your standards just
so that you can have a bf. It's better to be alone and keep
your self-esteem intact; as opposed to having someone to just have someone, but yet treats you bad. Life is too short to worry why guys do or don't like you. When the guy that you're supposed to be with come s along, then you will know.
2006-07-30 19:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by Chingona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are too young to have a boyfriend. So dont try to rush it there is so much other stuff you can do with your time then be boy crazy. And another thing....calling people every five minutes if they dont answer is one BIG reason why guys dont want to date you. It makes you seem desperate and its got to get annoying. Its something you need to cut off right away. And it also sounds like you try to attract attention to yourself. So instead of being insecure be confident instead. Be happy with your self and what you look like and dont worry about what people think about you. I am sure you are a pretty girl and a few extra pounds is no big deal. So stop worrying and when its time for you to have a boyfriend he will come and find you. Stop looking for one soo hard.
2006-07-30 19:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by Glittergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a guy, just be yourself. So what if you a chubby. If a guy really likes you, he will like you for your personality and not your looks. Also, remember that you can't rush things and the "universe" has the final say. In time, you will meet a nice guy--it happened to me.
2006-07-30 19:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your looks is good. You are only 13 years old. Don't worry about getting a boyfriend.
When you call, you call only once and leave a message asking him to call you back with your telephone numbers. Then stop calling him, let him have his space. Besides, don't you have other things to do.
2006-07-30 19:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow
you don't look like 13 at all
how can you be shy when you spend 90% of the time on the phone?
if you're really shy...try making a friend who has a few male friends
2006-07-30 19:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look when your not payin attention someone is payin attention to you. I mean ur beautiful just think of ur self as beautiful. When someone tells you ur uglay u tell them i think i am beautiful and when someone sees that you feel as though your beautiful they pay even more attention. See the same thing was wit me i didn't like myself i though no one liked me but as i began to feel as though i was beautiful i got alot of boyfriends ones that was payin attention before and people dat neva paid any attention feel confedent in yah self and keep yah head up high. Walk tall walk like you know you are beautiful.
2006-07-30 19:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by AviGurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-02 22:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by traffic to website, earn money, 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey well lets c! try not callin so much cus i think guys dun like that..n dun worry i think u'll get a bf even tho ure shy! cus guys like shy grls..hmmm..get him wif ure talents or wif ure smartness..cus guys like that! hope that helps! n one moree thing u dun really hav 2 b outgoin 2 get a guy.
2006-07-30 19:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a mexican. I hear mexican men love fat white women. Mostly because they usually cant get attractive white women.Good luck with that
2006-07-30 19:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋