So I met this girl at college orientation. and over the course of the year we hung out only about 10 times because we both had busy schedules and things kinda got lost in the shuffle. It also seems like sometimes she's super ultra excited to hang out with me and other times not so much (Mixed Signals!!! Argghhhh!!). I took her to a formal and we had a great time and everything, theres incredible chemistry, but I can never get myself to find a subtle way to figure out if she really likes me as just a friend or what. I dont want to ask her because I have an incredible fear of rejection. What do I do?
2006-07-30 19:23:19 · 3 answers · asked by d quon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-08-02 20:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She likes you, but she's already got somebody else lurking in the background... She's keeping you around in case he doesn't work out.
2006-07-31 03:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by Zabela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing i would do is just say hey i really do like you maybe we can be more then just friends or you can give her hints.
2006-07-31 02:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by ricky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋