she called me and i was w/ an old friend she hasn't met and i told her we were having drinks and she claimed to be cool w/ it but now she won't return my calls or text messages and it's been 2 days now. how do i get her over this?
2006-07-30 19:18:44 · 15 answers · asked by casual 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
would you be cool if she was having a drink with an old friend? i assume your friend was female...
2006-07-30 19:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by AslanMusic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change a woman's mind easily if she thinks you are cheating. I've experienced different types of women like this, some will always be jealous of you and other women because she is just plain insecure with the relationship (not always, and frequently not your doing). There is also the kind of woman that is capable of cheating themselves. A lot of women get jealous because they have done that and cheated. They believe if they are capable of doing it, so are you. One I really appall, is the ones that get coached by their girlfriends even though they trusted you at first. Some women just give other women really bad advice.
If your woman takes you back and if you want a woman like this, make her feel secure about the relationship by reminding her how she is the only one in your life. The real root of the problem is she is insecure, plain and simple. Keep your attention focused on her, no straying eyes, lots of eye contact, and total attention on her for a while. It will help mountains.
2006-07-31 02:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by fortuitousoppty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not for you. Dump her. SHe needs to grow up. Very jealous woman. SHe obviously does not trust you. No trust - no relationship. It will only get worse until she grows up and some never do. Same with guys, some never grow up. WHat is she going to do when you hire a good looking female as an employee and she reports directly to you?
DOn;t send her flowers and apologize for something you did not do wrong. Otherwise you will have to start sending flowers for pissing on the toilet seat or leaving the seat up.
Next thing you know you will be getting her a Mercedes for farting in bed.
2006-07-31 02:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by guess who I am and win a prize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told her the truth, RIGHT. Well thats all that matter but it sounds like some insecurity going on. Only you and that friend really know so evidently you have done something in the past and you have lost her trust. So now you have to regain that trust and hopefully this time it will all work out. Call her again and again
2006-07-31 02:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by T-Smoove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i also accuse my boyfriend of cheating and today ive even sent him a text telling him its over as i cant go on feeling this way.i think you need to give her some re-assurance and treat her good,make sure you make time to be with her.imagine if it was the other way round and you called her whilst she was out with an old friend who you had not met
2006-07-31 02:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Explain to her what happened. If she doesn't buy it then too bad for her, at least your conscience will be clear. Afterwards dump the ho since she's not going to make your life easier. She probably cheated on you already thinking you did it to her.
2006-07-31 02:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by morningstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't convince her. That is an insecurity within herself. No matter what you say or do, she will always have a come back. She has to work this out for herself.
2006-07-31 02:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by Carollynne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call again, text again, send flowers. say it was a misunderstanding, apologize profusely, promise that in the future, you'll tell her when you'll be with other females and introduce her and invite her along if that would make her more comfortable
good luck
2006-07-31 02:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is the jealous type - if you were not cheating, then you do not have to worry about this, if she won't get over it, can you imagine to live a life with a jealous girl ?
2006-07-31 02:21:07 · answer #9 · answered by destiny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go right up to her and ask y she hasnt contacted u. if she says she thinks ur cheating just totaly deny it. if u hav to prove it just kiss her, or introduce her 2 ur friend.
hope this helps.
2006-07-31 02:22:45 · answer #10 · answered by jnw121592 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋