i love my bf but i like another guy?
hi ..im an 18 yr old girl starting college soon...i have been with my bf for 2 years and he is a wonderful guy and ive never met anyone like him...he loves me a lot and is committed to me...i love him too and we have a good rship...
however i feel suffocated in this rship when my friends and colleagues at past workplaces say that i shouldnt check out guys and talk abt them as much as i do...i say that im not married to my bf and whats wrong with me thinking abt other guys..also, i like this guy from my workplace a lot and have told my bf abt...he has been very understanding abt it and says that he wont leave the girl he loves just because she has a crush on someone...i know it hurts him and i feel bad but i really like this other guy..but i love my bf 100 times more..dont wana leave him..he's also my best friend..anyways i know i cant get together with the other guy cos he's from a different religion and moreover he says he thinks of me as his sister...i feel so disgusted by that..
2006-07-30 19:11:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i sms the other guy and talk to him on messenger and email him everyday...i also meet up with my bf..today i didnt kiss my bf when he wanted to but i backed away after a while..i cant until i have that other guy in my mind..i have liked other guys before while in this rship..i continued to like the guy i liked before i met my bf even after we were together..then i also liked a guy friend of mine for a while...he recently stopped being friends with me and this is when all this happened...i have hurt my bf so much but i dont wana feel bad abt it...the thing that hurts me the most is the other guy thinks of me as sister..sighs...views pls..
my bf is going to the same college as me...i dont intend to tell anyone we are together so i can see how man guys like me..and i want to make more friends...also..shd i go out for lunch ith the other guy?...my bf says if i go it would hurt him because he knows that i like the guy and he's not just a friend...help..he asks me why i mind bein his sis?
2006-07-30 19:12:27 · update #1
Just a hint, when a guy says "You are like my sister"...means no high hope just good friends!
2006-07-30 19:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lucifer T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think maybe this guy is into incest saying your like his sister i also think your a nasty piece of work you should love the guy your with or tell him you cant be with him nemore its not fair on him he loves you n your always thinkin about another guy not very classy
2006-07-30 19:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should explore more with men. once you are married , it is all over know what you want and find out how to get it. Your happiness depends on it .
2006-07-30 19:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by destiny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...that s a very informative one
2006-07-30 19:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by LB James 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋